My cousin has always been my best friend. We share everything. We even tell each other our crushes. Well when I tell her mine a couple of weeks later i find out that she is dating them, What can I do to get her to stop?
2006-12-18 20:47:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have to stop telling her about your crushes. Also you need to be more aggressive and go after the guys you secretly like and go out with them so that she doesn't end up with the guy first. I have a feeling that you are really shy. You need to have more self confidence and get the guy yourself and DON'T tell your cousin. She needs to find her own man!
2006-12-18 20:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by laylamami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is so simple. Stop telling her your crushes. Try to infulence her to date other people that she might show an interest in, distract her and bam you keep your stable to yourself.
2006-12-19 04:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shud not really do that..
just let her be.. how old is she? i think is she's at her teen's or early tweny's, she knows what she's doin'.. it's up t' her conscience =)
'v curs it's okay to express that ur affected, but dont make an effort to stop her.. ts ok t' show her ur hurt.. just watch and learn what's gona hapen.. th' more u show her its killin' u, and wants t' stop her..chances r th' more she'll keep doin' that t' u.. just let it be.. don't show that ur too affected by hwat's she's doin'..
she'll be really sorry. and u'll find a lot "better" peeps..
=) keep it cool, it's just crushes.. :)
2006-12-19 05:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by MARIA JANICE 31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off ask her why she does dates people you told her you have a crush on..open the lines of communication...there must be some reason why she does this, probably that she is insecure with herself deep inside, feels inferior to you in some way etc...this is her way of showing herself she is better than you in her sick way...next stop telling her your crushes.!!
2006-12-19 04:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by Monica_PS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop telling her who you have crushes on.
2006-12-19 06:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't let her date.
2006-12-19 04:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what a ***** she is
2006-12-19 04:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by amber likes glitter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
2006-12-19 04:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by tino r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing.
2006-12-19 04:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jagger Otto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋