i dont know why i changed but now i have a whole lot more interest in black guys and when im wit my friends and they say look at that hott guy( thats white) i have no interest at all i look @ the black guys and you c i am a christian but is God mad @ me do u know in tha bible where it talks about this? and i cant change how i feel so how should i tell my parents i know they would go crazy if they knew !!! please help
2006-12-18 19:29:24 · 18 answers · asked by Chenille 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Chanille! The fact that you like black guys is a sexual fantasy you have right now. You are allowed to have a relationship with anyone you want, whether black, white, yellow, red.
You should, maybe get over your curiosity by taking a bath or shower with someone who interests you. The rules of dating should be adhered to in any case. Whoever you have sexual desires for, must be just the person for you, whether black or white. But please use protection, and then decide who you want to be your husband. Raising children in a seperate culture poses some problems, and you should be carefull, just as you would with white bfs. If you want to explore, be careful that you don't get stuck in a relationship because of pregnancy. Have your fling, but don't get stuck in a bad, only-for-sex relationship.
2006-12-18 21:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by persnicady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honey first of all I have been raised in church all my life and whoever told you that dating someone out of your race is a sin is full of it they are taking that completly out of contex.There is NOTHING wrong with liking or even dating a black guy NOTHING and if your wondering yes I am white but it doesn't matter what your parents say on the subject it's your decision you need to focus on what you want not what everyone else wants.You know what can make you happy.Just to let you know I attended a church a few times that had very many interatial couples it's called Solid Rock Church look it up online.
2006-12-18 19:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by amanda c 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no place in the Bible that states you cannot like someone from a different race. Anyone who tells you it is not Biblical is a very uneducated Christian.
I would not announce to your parents that you are in the market for a black boyfriend. If you do meet someone you are interested in, then bring it up to them at that point. Concentrate on all his good qualities and then say, "I just wanted to let you know that he is black. I did not want you to be surprised when he comes to pick me up later." If you don't make it a big deal, neither will they.
2006-12-18 19:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by bashnick 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you find a black guy who treats you like a princess and would do anything for you, and is a perfect gentleman... that should be the only your parents should be worried about. And if inter-racial relationships are a sin, there are a lot of people going to hell. Everyone has their own preferences... just find a guy that you like and who's good to you. That's the most important thing. Good luck.
2006-12-18 19:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're a christian, then theres nothing wrong with that. Just go for the christian black guy.
er... but why don't you wait untill theres a specific guy that you like.... before breaking the news to your parents?
Hopefully you'll out grow this. If not, then I guess your parents are just gonna have to accept it.
good luck
2006-12-18 23:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by venom! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of the apostles came from what is now ethiopia. he was probably black. I doubt if any of them were white.
I agree there is a fascination with other colors. I am too, but to make a blanket statement like that, hmmm. you'd better join a nunnery instead.
if you like all black guys and don't like all white guys, you have a lot to learn. every race has bad and good, if you can't tell the difference, you'd better learn. I like good guys and gals whatever their color. the trick is recognizing which are the good ones and which are the bad
2006-12-18 19:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by free thinker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The colour of your skin, your language and culture all make you human. People living close to the equator have darker skin because of the extreme heat and burning sun. Where you originated in the world shouldnt come into play in a relationship unless that persons culture conflicts with yours. We are all human and thats all that matters.
2006-12-18 19:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by melvinbenjamin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well like they say:
God made Adam & Eve NOT Adam & Steve...
but i know that sexuality and finding another gender attractive can be hard...so i think that you should go out with a few black guys and see if thats what you REALLY want...if you feel deep down inside that it is...THEN tell your parents...because they do have the right to know and dont worry if they flip out, they will eventually come round if they love you...and accept who you are!
Good luck!
Merry Xmas!
2006-12-18 20:40:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
human beings will continually locate issues incorrect with a boyfriend in spite of colour. i replaced into raised to love all of us and that i frolicked with diverse forms of human beings. your human beings would have under no circumstances hangout or understand some thing about diverse races. Alot of human beings grew up believing that human beings had as a lot as now of their personal race.some human beings save in options the previous at the same time as black and white couldn't socialize at the same time.you'll experience alot of cruelty from ignorant human beings. see you later as your satisfied that's all that concerns.
2016-11-30 23:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the answer to the rest of your question, but I prefer black guys too... only I'm a female, so I don't have all the problems that you seem to be coming up against..
Best of luck figuring it all out..
Follow your bliss!!
2006-12-18 19:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by seaofcolour 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋