2006-12-18 18:41:43 · 9 answers · asked by blondie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Then the suggestion is to TAKE CHARGE of your own life, stop for a while, get some therapy, and become comfortable with caring for yourself in a responsible manner ...
Then ... when you least expect it, you may find someone that is a better match for you.
2006-12-18 19:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are a timing thing. Don't try to hard. Build your own self esteam that is what attracts the opposite sex. Get out there and show them your confident side. Not your hard up desperate side. If the timing is right meeting someone will be easy as pie. Everybody has different priorites at different times. Check myspace or something. Timing is everything! Thats why you see a good looking person with an ugly person all the time. Someone was in the right place at the rigth time. Just get out there and look good :)
Good luck and Merry Christmas!
2006-12-19 02:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tiger Crane Master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us tend to be that way. Even those of us who can tend to give good advice most of the time to the ones around us make bad reltionship choices. It is simple why we do it. When it is our relationship it is our heart and feelings in it. It is hard to see past that. When we are looking at someone else's life/relationship we can take the time to view it with openess. Our own we can't look past our heart very easy. Good luck and I hope both of us find a way to become better in our abilities to make better personal choices.
2006-12-19 02:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by Janet J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have an inner critic that loves to try to tear us down in any relationship or thoughts pondered. It's part of being human.
When it comes to relationships listen to your gut instinct and your heart. If you listen to your head, you will confuse yourself and that is when the inner critic sees an edge and will begin pouncing on you.
Follow your heart, if it steers you wrong once or twice, learn from the experience, next time your gut instinct will tell you to stay clear of that kind of person. Trust your instincts...
2006-12-19 02:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We attract what we think we deserve. Each person has a confidence level. To get to a higher level you have to put yourself in new situations that will change your perspective and your image. You will have to 'will"
yourself in to do things that are uncomfortable. By succeeding in new things, you will be a different person and a more confident person. It's up to you to change or just accept who you are now and be happy. Happy Holidays!
2006-12-19 03:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kuntree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely because you are the only person who is incharge of your life?
It's called responsibility!!!
2006-12-19 02:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by Alan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your head not your heart
2006-12-19 02:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to adulthood. Although, most of the time, it's a pretty good ride while it lasts.
2006-12-19 02:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by weary0918 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aren't we all?????
2006-12-19 02:45:02 · answer #9 · answered by mickey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋