Not too sound concieted, im not a bad looking dude. I take care of myself. Actually, women, and men hit on me all the time. I am just too picky, and wouldnt just sleep with some ugly hag,and Im too paranoid too contract some std on some random sex, with either men or women. But, im feeling a bit lonely and i feel like just getting it on.. im still waiting for that one.. well, there's already one, but he moved away,, i guess im waiting for him to be back. So my question is, is it normal for guys to discriminate who to "hookup" with based on physical appearance? Im in my early 20's and not really into Fat Old Dirty Men. Im also not into feminine guys.. anyobody on the same boat?
2006-12-18 18:35:18 · 15 answers · asked by Kyle 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
try the bus station bathroom. Isnt that where your types get lucky
2006-12-18 18:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 8⤋
It is normal! I chose who I have sex with. You can not just have sex with anyone who comes through the door. I don't call it discrimination, I call it choice. That is why there are menu in restaurants for you to chose and enjoy!
Also I am glad that you are into safe sex. It only shows how responsible you are as a sex partner.
Just to add something. If you choose someone, you base your decisions today not tomorrow or 10 years from now. What if that person will never change? Don't you think it is more cruel that you choose someone because you think that person will become beautiful 10 years from now? What will you do for the next 10 years? Pretend that she is beautiful? I call that lying. The real lesson here is don't be an a s s hole. Treat everyone the same respect you give to your friends and family. In this way, if your ugly friend becomes beautiful 10 years from now, you can easily approach her and be yourself.
2006-12-19 03:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by PAXson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Possibly even more than 'straights' assessing the other sex - in the gay world - but only if you're into the sex.
Like the straight world, the eventual long-term partner is almost always someone you can "relate to" (to avoid arguments over the meaning of 'love').
You sound as if you are eyeing up "Mr Right" for the long-term, not just for the sex - good.
But you're also lonely and 'horny'. That can lead to lowering 'standards' of discrimination in both straight and gay worlds.
It's your choice - but you also recognise the risks of STDs, so just be careful.
2006-12-19 02:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not unusual to choose friends based on looks but it will really cause you to miss out of some good friendships. You are sounding awfully concieted. And if you are putting it down here you are probably exhibiting it in real life. The sex will come work on the friendships. Your hangup on yourself may be the reason you are feeling lonely.
I really do wish you a lot of luck.
2006-12-19 02:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that's awsome, actually. You need some, but at the same time have some control over you bodily functions and needs. I don't know of a solution, execpt for don't fall in love, because if you do, everything you ever held on to is compromised.
Please do discriminate! Be picky! You'll thank yourself later, AND have NO REGRETS!
2006-12-19 02:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by MoMoney23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not discriminating... I like guys and girls but for like a one night stand kinda thing, the person better be really frickin hot! Just don't forget protection...
Also, you can tell right away when somebody's just trashy; you might wanna avoid any contact with those...
2006-12-19 02:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by aloe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's normal for you to be attracted to someone's physical appearance. Ofter a good looking person is really healthy as well--this seems to be part of the makeup of why we find people attractive (that's not to say that everyone who looks healthy really is). And each person is attracted(ive) to different types..thank goodness for that! LOL
2006-12-19 02:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's a normal state for everyone.
We all have our preferences - we all know what we want, what we like, what looks attract us.
What we find attractive might not be someone else's ideal. That's OK - less competition!
2006-12-19 02:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you are only cared about physical and "sex baby sex."
Yucks. I do pitied the women whom did sleep with you. Cause already u sound like you can anytime have sex with many partners it's just that you can't find the good looking one.
2006-12-19 02:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sue3612 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i once went to school with a girl that was real ugly.
she had buck teeth, wore braces,
she rode a toboggin into a barb wire fence
and messed up her face.
when she got older, she had a lot of boyfriends
because she had big hooters.
moral of the story is, if looks are all that matter to you,
then you are very shallow and worth avoiding !
2006-12-19 03:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You sound like everyone I know, gay or straight. It's normal to want to hook up with someone you find physically attractive.
2006-12-19 02:40:41 · answer #11 · answered by Pico 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋