I had a crush on a man I used to see on the bus for one year now. You know when you have instincts that tell you there is a connection because of the way you look at each other or behave and keep on thinking about that person all the time? well that was happening to me. I introduced myself one day and believe me I have never seen a man turn so alive and happy and shy as I have seen that face that day in my life. I had the feeling he liked me as much as I liked him. However, when I said good bye he called me back to say that he would not be able to come on the same route from the next week. I think he wanted to hear something more from me , but I did not say anything because I did not think it was the right time. The next day and last day of our meeting I was in a hurry and just managed to pass him a christmas card with my address and phone number in it too. But he never called back. Do you think he just took me for a whore? I miss him so much. Was it true love I missed out?
2006-12-18 18:28:25 · 13 answers · asked by S&D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hopefully Im wrong but something seems terribly wrong here. He may be gay or worse, he may be in legal trouble such as a sexual predator or molester or convicted rapist. This may be why he changed routes once someone showed interest in him. It is his way of staying out of trouble. That is probably why too,he hasnt called you back. I seriousily doubt if he thinks the worse of you but it has more to do with his background so please be careful with this guy. Having dealt with sexual criminals, the majority stated their first objective was an innocent friendship, luring some female into a false sense of friendship, why they had no real interest in this person except for one thing. Im not trying to scare you here but in todays society, take nothing for granted until youre absolutely sure, just want you to be careful since you know nothing else about this guy. Good luck and Merry Christmas
2006-12-18 19:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he knows where you are. He may be so shy, he's having trouble dealing with or believing this happened to him. If it's meant to be, he'll build up the courage to track you down and take this to the next step. But you have to realize it may not happen, and it's possible that because of the way he was feeling, there was nothing else you could have done to cause a different reaction.
Good luck! You just can't forecast the weather or love!
2006-12-18 18:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Dont_Tread_On_Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Em....I think you might want to give him another week or so. I mean I assum he is a shy guy so he might get a little cold feet to give you a call. Give him a little more time.
After a week or so, if you see him on a bus again and he never mentions anything about calling you, then I'd just let it go. Or if you want to, you can just ask him straight up why, but do it in a casual manner.
No..I don't think he takes you for a whore.
2006-12-18 18:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have said something. Sometimes you need to take a chance and be more blunt with some people. I think he might shy and worried. If you really want to know, hopefully you can ask him the next time you see him again (if the opportunity ever arises).
2006-12-18 18:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by LW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that was just infatuation. Its very painful. You should move on and be with men that are available and enjoy your company. There out there honey! oh, and don't worry about coming off as a whore; men are interested in women that like to have sex not celibate nuns.
2006-12-18 18:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by woo-lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so hard to say . Maybe he didn't feel the same as you ,he got scared because he's involved with some one already ,or out of sight is out of mind .I doubt he took you for a whore .
2006-12-18 18:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by pitbullmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is married or has a girlfriend. I wouldn't give my name address and phone number to a stranger like that. What you were feeling was physical attraction. It happens often.
2006-12-18 18:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's impossible to tell if you never got to know each other. For whatever reason, he didn't call. That's all you know.
2006-12-18 18:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi sara
no it was not a true love...donot waste your time by thinking so..
if he like you he would call you...
i think that he took this as a comical manner....
i think you got what i meant.
2006-12-18 18:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by Cheers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about what he thinks about you. maybe he's married and didn't want to mess up his marriage or something.
Hey at least you tried. and it just wasn't meant to be. it happens. and it sucks.
2006-12-18 18:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by Lori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋