i had inlaws problem and i was away from him for 2mnths now back to his house, how can i tell and feelings and make him agree for it??
2006-12-18 18:13:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No, just wait...
You're his baby, for now. HeeHee.
2006-12-18 18:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jagger Otto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im trying to understand ur way of thinking.
If the problem is with ur In laws n obsolutely not with ur hubby then u r thinking that ur inlaws will calm down and ur position and words get stronger in d family when u have a kid.
but remember even after u have a baby and the problems remain d same u will be in big troubles.
first enjoy ur marital life thouroughly that will generate affection n love from ur hubbys end 2.
making love is more important.then u will automatically have a baby, beyond that ur u will get ur hubbys support which is the royal and most powerful support at ur inlaws place.
all the best and enjoy
2006-12-19 05:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by cuteeeee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only being married 7 months, plus having in-law problems is not a good sign to have a baby just yet. Besides, the 1st year or 2 of marriage is hard enough without a baby so wait until you've made it past the 2 year anniversary.
2006-12-19 02:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ash Anne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't FORCE him to want children. If you are married for only 7 months I'm going to assume that you are fairly young. Enjoy spending time together first before you go and bring children into the mix. The first few years of marriage is very difficult without bringing children into the mix. And besides, if you force the issue you may push your husband away. Give it some more time. He knows that you want children, when he's ready he'll tell you...
2006-12-19 02:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by ChrissyBar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are smart, then u shd be able to read between lines.
First in-law problems and now yr hubby doesnt want kids.
He's maybe afraid that in case there are any more probs.,then he shd not be saddled by kids.
But you must be thinking that by having kids, they will not drive u out of their hse [heir & all that...]
But my dear woman grow up.
Yr marital life doesnt look settled yet. So you r betteroff without a kid --- in case some problem arises again.
Thank yr stars that yr hubby is unknowingly/knowingly
helping u.
Good luck. wait for atleast 1year for the dust to settle down.
2006-12-19 06:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by ๏๓ รђคภtเ, รђคภtเ รђคภtเ ....... ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you two have enough problems going on right now. I would be focusing on fixing your relationship before thinking about having a baby. Plus, If you force him into it he will resent you and maybe even the baby later. You, your Hubby, and any future kids you two have don't deserve that. Wait until you guys have a strong and stable relationship.
P.S. Having a baby will not solve any of your problems!
2006-12-19 02:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by thurtlebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u want a kid and ur hubby is not interested then it doesn't matter u just tell him ur feeling if he is interested the its ok otherwise 7months is not a big deal enjoy ur life for some more days when the right time comes ur hubby automatically interested.
wish that ur hubby help u in finding the solution of this problem
good luck
2006-12-19 02:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by monu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a baby is a human being, not a toy or a doll to dress up and play with first off. second, you can't make hubby want it -- it must be a decision you BOTH agree to and that will only come with time. be patient and take the time to make your marriage strong nad healthly first, before you bring another life into this world.
2006-12-19 02:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by not the momma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he's not ready, don't force the issue, 7 months is not that long, get used to living with each other first, and do the things you won't be able to do once there is a baby in the picture, spend time enjoying each other, then think about the baby idea.
2006-12-19 02:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by Mystee_Rain 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well 7 months is not a very long time. no days people dont have babies for 1 or 2 years thats commom and help them to understand eachother better
2006-12-19 02:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Nick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gees why rush so much? if ur already having some problems in ur familly then u must b crazy thinking of having babys so soooooooooooon... stop bein selfish and grow up!!
2006-12-19 03:06:28 · answer #11 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋