For those people like me who haven't seen their virginity in decades, do you regret how you lost it, and how

Question

can we get kids to realize that meaningless sex to lose your virginity kinda sucks later in life when you realize that the first time wasn't that special and that you don't even remember the persons name (if you don't remember the persons name) I know its assuming alot, I know there are many who lose their virginity in a special way this doesn't really pertain to you

Answer 1

Virginity isn't some chalice to be placed on a mantle and revered. Fill the chalice. Sex is an important aspect of human life. It is not just for procreation. The first time is rarely special. Nobody knows what they are doing. It doesn't become special until you get some practice in.

Answer 2

I disagree with the first answer, sex has become of no consequence, it is simply something else that a couple is expected to do. I believe sex to be a very intimate and special expression between two people, it can have consequences such as STDs and pregnancy. The decison to have sex is not one to be taken lightly, while I personally believe it best to wait until marriage I feel that it is a personal choice but it should be considered heavily and it should at least be with a person with who you have a deep committed relationship. Before engaging in sex you should be able to openly discuss past partners, any diseases, what you will do in case contraception fails and any other aspects pertaining to sexual activity.
Waiting until one is married does not have to be tied to religion, in my case I just feel that it is the right situation, and you must treat your body with some respect. It should be something you want to remember.

Answer 3

No you likely can't, because I remember thinking "wow, this IS the person". They were poor choices by my higher standards today; in other words, I wouldn't have given these persons a second glance if I was the person back then that I am TODAY. I want for my daughters to learn from my mistakes, but I was determined to make my OWN mistakes. These mistakes taught me some very harsh but needed lessons.
I really hope they don't need to be knocked around (fore mostly figuratively speaking as in "hard knocks life", but could be taken literally) to learn the importance of doing what they know is the best for them.

I wish that I had sacrificed to do the right thing.

Answer 4

Angel its almost impossible these days because society has taught most young people have sex for pleasure instead of waiting for the right one. This is the me , me me me me era. This is also why we have a 64% divorce rate. No one values love and long term relationships anymore. Its all about the momentary pleasure. People are starting to lose their hearts. Im glad im waiting till i get married to have sex. I would not have it any other way

Answer 5

This makes me feel a lot better about holding on. So many people laughed at my lack of experience...I suspect they were trying to play a mind game in hopes to get me to lose it to them. Sick, ugly fu(ks

Thank you ;)