I suspect my spouse of cheating but don't have the time to prove it, besides, the spouse is extremely clever.
2006-12-18 17:43:40 · 10 answers · asked by ♨ Wisper ► 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You sound like a smart woman and you probably already know.
2006-12-18 17:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by LittleFreedom 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Catching your husband cheating can actually take a little time to do but its worth it! Since your his wife you actually have all his personal information which is easier. Let's start with his cell phone bill, you can check it online automatically or ask your cell phone company to send you a detail bill. Check his voicemail and text messages on his phone. You can also check his e-mails by hacking his password. Bank statements that show where he is spending his money on what days, online is the fastest way to do it. If you want to get more detail I would suggest for you to find a gps tracking system that will track where he is going, go with a friend that he doesn't know in her car and see where he is going. There is also software that they sell to see what he is doing when he's online. Be really careful when you are doing this. Act like you don't know nothing and try not to show emotion. Once you have your evidence...don't confront him right away until you have a lot basically more than enough to prove he's cheating. Men will make tons of excuses and call you crazy, so make sure you get everything you need. It sounds crazy to do this but men always leave their tracks, and with the internet its fairly if not extremely easy to find the facts...and if people call you crazy, so what! If this is what you need to move on, then so be it. Its your life and your entitled to do whatever you want. Good Luck!
2006-12-18 17:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
signs are staying overly late at work or making excuses to have to be gone many hours a day/week. Change in apearence buying new clothes new hair style taking better care of self. acting sneaky keeping cell #'s privite leaving the room to talk on the phone
2006-12-18 17:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, there are ways. I definitely suggest following him and taking pics if you see him with someone else. That way he cannot deny it. You need to have cold hard evidence to prove something like cheating because otherwise, they will deny it up and down.
Oh! And if he has something like instant messenger...you should make up a false name and IM him and see if you could get him to meet you. That way, you would know if he WOULD cheat.
2006-12-18 17:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by His Angel 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Go to Break free from the affair.com, on the left side it will show 32 signs of your partner having an affair.
2006-12-18 17:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a Louse detective. I mean a detective to check up on your louse-oh i mean spouse!
2006-12-18 17:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if it's worth it to you, but I read a lot of good things about this ebook ($30): http://tinyurl.com/ykd6za
I also found some free resources for you if you don't want to pay:
http://www.innoarticles.com/v/1083/How+To+Catch+A+Cheating+Partner
http://www.innoarticles.com/v/1710/How+To+Catch+A+Cheating+Husband
http://www.innoarticles.com/v/68539/7+Proven+Ways+You+Can+Catch+A+Cheating+Lover
I hope that helps you; Good luck! (I hope he's being faithful ... but you never know)
2006-12-18 18:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by kittenlover771 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the Cheaters program. They can help you out.
http://cheaters.com/
2006-12-19 07:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
show up at his work at wierd times.....secretly follow him....go through all his stuff. You have to be your own PI. Eventually something will show up.....and when it does, kick his ****!
2006-12-18 17:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by Penny P 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself what you did wrong to drive him away.
2006-12-19 08:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋