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2006-12-22 06:05:57
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answer #1
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answered by prince47 7
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Don't ever try to be "anything" but yourself. If you try to conform to be something that you are not, that is fake and is not at all pleasant. My best advice is to treat others as you would want to be treated. If others don't like you for who you are, and want you to be any different that "you are", then they are not worth it. A smile always goes a long way....Try this.....Next time you are walking in a mall, walking in school in a hall or work, or anywhere, smile as you walk by people, see how many smile back, then go an extra step, say "hi" to a stranger....see how many say hi back.....You may not be the prettiest, most popular, but for someone to say that you are a "pleasant, nice person" is better than any popularity contest, plus, being nice, is contagious!!!
2006-12-19 01:02:37
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answered by Anonymous
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It is all of the above.But before anybody makes an opinion of you,they check your appearance.If you look good,you are gonna be given many chances in life.Good stuff is gonna come to you,before you try to look for it.Unfortunately this is a proven reality.Just try to look nice,i mean dress up and style your hair with latest fashion.Then be yourself,if not you gonna have a relapse.Meaning you gonna get tired of being someone that you are not.Looks are very important.
2006-12-18 17:11:35
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answered by avavu 5
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BE YOURSELF!!!! if they don't think you are "cool" then they aren't the kind of friends you really need. wear what you want to wear and not what society thinks you should wear. act how you want to act, i mean be nice, but in the end that whole popularity thing only goes so far. really it's empty and meaningless. it's soooo much better to find friends with the same interests and beliefs as you have. you will have a much better time hanging out doing nothing with true friends than you'd have trying to look cool and fit in. it's too much work for something it isn't real.
2006-12-18 17:06:30
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answered by Debbie C 2
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To be popular means as to how you react with other persons. You should be very nice and bear smiling face when any other person comes to you. You should behave very gently and you must bear hopitability and philanthropy in your behaviour. I assure you t hat if you act upon such guidelines, you will surely become very popular amongst your friends. In other words your interaction with other persons must be nice and appreciable. Hope for good.
2006-12-18 17:15:19
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answered by ? 7
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that depends on where ur from, like different places are into different things, but the thing everyone cares about is fashion. so dress in style. and be fit, more than likely u will get friends about how you look. and it depends on who ur trying to impress, the bad crowd or the good. either way just dress good and act nice. k?
2006-12-18 17:16:25
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answered by tacticz1@sbcglobal.net 1
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if u are having longer medium hairs put ponytails or if u are short put tight sweat hair bands and do not ever put oil when u are going out , it will discus ting, people will laugh so never put oil when u are going out and put "PANTINE" shampoo it is the best. impress boys by wearing tight jeans or mini skirts and were some hot shirts. make your eyes bold and transperent gloss.talk nicely to other people even your friends and u can make more friends. popularity depends how much friends u have.
2006-12-19 00:16:40
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answered by Eve 2
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It is everything you do that incorporates in to your liking factor. You should find a happy medium of all those things. But being popular isn't all that it looks like it is. It might not be worth changing your self.
2006-12-18 16:59:49
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answered by Anonymous
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A. be yourself, don't care what everyone else thinks about you just go with your gut feeling on things and say what's on your mind, people admire someone who are real, so don't be someone you aren't.
B. be nice to everyone and be nice to animals, smile allot for no reason, it will actually make you feel good even if you aren't having such a good day plus it will make you look confident and hot.
C. read/educate yourself about things you are interested in and become an expert on things (but not an annoying know it-all)
D. become a good listener and people will love you... really pay attention to people
E. look in the mirror everyday and smile and check yourself out and say to yourself "you are one hot motherf*cker!"
F. don't talk sh*t about people you will hurt people's feeling and make enemies
G. don't be afraid to try new things... but don't ever do anything you feel uncomfortable doing (like crystal meth or having sex with somebody you barely know)
H. watch a lot of funny movies to develop a sense of humour
I. listen to all kinds of music and learn to appreciate everything
J. be able to laugh at yourself when you do something stupid.. there is nothing worse than when someone does something stupid and just stands around looking awkward, laugh at yourself.
K. don't be slutty and have sex with every guy you see
L. dress your best and feel your best, this means: dress how you want and don't give a f*ck what other people think and take care of yourself (ie eat right, exercise) so you'll feel your best
M. Don't get too drunk around guys, they will take advantage of you and tell everyone + you'll get way hungover the next day... only drink with a few close friends, that way you can't make a total a$$ out of yourself
N. love yourself and everyone will love you... trust me.
O. become really good at some cool party tricks =)
P. don't be loud and obnoxious just to get attention only be loud and obnoxious when the time is right
Q. talk really good things about your friends; saying good things about other makes them and you both look great and people will think "she is such a good friend to say that"
R. don't try to ruin your enemies, try to be friends with them and if that doesn't work just let them ruin themselves
S. don't watch too much MTV... watch CNN a little everyday or so so you know what's going on in the world.
T. learn to appreciate the free things in life, like the sunset and nature and stuff
U. learn how to dance =)
V. be nice like I said but don't kiss as$ b/c that is fake, also don't take sh!t from anyone make friend with big people who can kick as$.. they will be your body guards and nobody will f*ck with you.
W. stay calm and when you get nervous just imagine everyone except you naked, or imagine them being extremly ugly... I do this to hot girls all the time I give them this look of "you aren't that hot, infact you are kinda ugly" it confuses people everytime and they will automatically assume you are better than them
X. be nice to all the unpopular people too because you can make some kikas$ friends and you can help them come out of their "shell"
Y. maintain eye contact when you are happy/interested in someone and smile, be cute and use your girly voice (every girl has one so you know what I'm talking about =)
Z. be yourself!!! most important thing
you'll be ok girl ;)
you don't have to do all these things they are just tips, not rules, rules suck... just be yourself and if you don't know who that is find out... need any help email me at vxmascara@yahoo.com.
trust me I know I have alot of good friends and I've had alot of experiance with girls =)
lub,
-Ben
2006-12-18 17:41:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Find another pursuit that brings more meaning to your life, like good grades, getting into a good college, or staying out of trouble with the law. 3-4 years from now, you won't even remember this question.
2006-12-18 16:58:22
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answered by DixieNormus 4
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Be nice a polite to people, dress in clean clothes with clean hair, teeth and body and try to smile a lot.
2006-12-18 16:56:53
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answered by Anonymous
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