that i would probably not be comfortable being there? should i just let it go. my reasoning is that maybe his ex-wife might be there and he is worried we might get into it? or am i just making excuses for him?
2006-12-18 16:08:05 · 10 answers · asked by ROCKER CHICK 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Maybe he just means that knowing his co-workers, you probably won't be comfortable around them. They might not be the friendliest bunch. Or he thinks that he won't be able to be himself and have fun if you are around. Doesn't mean that he is doing anything behind your back. He might just want to be with the guys having fun and not have to spend 2 hours trying make you feel at ease. Why would you get into it with the ex? She is in the past and hopefully they have both moved on. There is no reason for you to ever feel threatened by the ex. If you are, you should discuss with your husband whatever makes you uncomfortable. Establish clear limits, and expectations.
2006-12-18 16:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by allinone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would certainly want to know why my presence is not
required. Are you sure it's his ex-wife he's worried about
or might there be another reason which you might hear gossip
indirectly. I think you are making excuses for him and you sound
like a smart lady and know exactly why he didn't want you there.
I wouldn't bring the subject up now and ruin the holidays for you
and your family, but certainly would get to the bottom of this.
2006-12-18 16:22:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not up to him to judge how comfy you would feel at the party.
Put on your party dress, your dancing shoes & enjoy the Christmas party. No more negative thoughts (about his ex), no more doubts of any kind.
Merry Cristmas. Have fun.
2006-12-18 16:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a lame excuse to me for just not wanting to be by your man's side.
2006-12-18 16:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do have a right to know what he meant by that. Just casually ask what was there that would have made you uncomfortable.
2006-12-18 16:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldve taken you! its shouldnt matter what reason you should be there or not but you should go to represent him and make him look good...thats pretty lame i think.
2006-12-18 16:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him and say i don't care if she would have been there I'm not there for her i would have been there for you that's why she is the ex and I'm not lol
2006-12-18 16:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by feelingstupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fishy to me.
2006-12-18 16:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by precious_jules81 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would show up especially after that comment.
2006-12-18 16:11:19 · answer #9 · answered by nakita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go crash the party.find out ease your conscience.
2006-12-18 16:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by done 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋