Ok here is the thing, I consider myself a decently nice guy. And I go to college, where I have a (low) paying job that allows me to use the knowledge that I have to help other people, and some want to become friends. The problem is, I can't have any friends, for many reasons. I don't believe in the concept, I just believe that there are only temporary allies, and permanent enemies....and people come, and they go, its just a fact of life.
Anyway, all I am asking is a decently nice way to tell people that we can't be friends that think I'm joking on the reason why (that I just stated).
2006-12-18 15:24:39 · 13 answers · asked by D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh, sorry I forgot, anyone that does not answer the question, will (and probably already was) be reported.
2006-12-18 15:48:28 · update #1
Just tell them "we can't be friends"
and if they think you are joking...step on their foot OR kick them in the shin. That should seal the deal.
2006-12-18 15:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
AWWWE! Poor baby, sounds like someone was always picked last in school, & didn't have any friends growing up!!!I think that it is a stupid reason to put people off. There happen to be many a great pleasures out of having a fulfiling friend ship for many years. You may be a nice guy, but you are very mislead, & highly misleading. Just tell them that you are not interested in real relationship friendship or other wise, because you can't have love with someone, or a marriage for that matter with out being friends witht the one that you are with, & tell them that you are sorry, you just don't believe that there is anything that you can offer in a friendship!!!!! Which is also B.S, everyone has something good to offer in any kind of friendship.
2006-12-18 15:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 11:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by lurette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell them that you are a busy person and don't have the time or ernergy to spend with anyone right now. That's all I can tell you.
Friends are gifts you give to yourself. You don't need to be with them all the time. Who knows, one day you may need that one person you pushed out of your life.
Good luck!
2006-12-18 15:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that realist view that you hold only goes so far my friend. perhaps if most people in the world have friends, and people around them, and human beings are proven to be social, loving creatures, you could be possibly going too far with this ideology. and thats all it is, an opinion. opinions can be changed, and nothing can be proven 100% so, check it out, if your so analytical that you have adapted such a realist/cynical view of human interaction, please check/test my thesis, I would love to see what you come up with
2006-12-18 15:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by sea s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it in a gentle way that you guys can't be friends. And if they ask just tell them it's too complicated to say
2006-12-18 15:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by Joy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god.. I've had to do this. I just told them honestly fropm that secret corner of my mind what I really though of them, THey were do repulsed by my judmental notion that they ended the realtionship right then and there. I didn't want to be your friend anyway beatrice!!!!
2006-12-18 15:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by kikumatsu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you like that, yea people come and they go but you always have your life long friends, are you living in a dark *** hole or something, make life more fun then what your doing now, some day you might "need" those "friends" for something, just some advice.....
2006-12-18 15:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them with your busy schedule and family obligations you don't feel you can pursue any new friendships at this time.
2006-12-18 15:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by thrill88 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell them how u feel
2006-12-18 15:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by MoNiCa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋