ok i'm 16 and i had sex 3 times and i completely hated it. it hurt so bad even though he went like really easy. is something wrong with me? is it cuz i'm asian (tight) and guy i did it was black ( big thing)? and how can i get used to it
2006-12-18 15:15:23 · 10 answers · asked by major 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
also, we do use condom and we do u know warming up. but its still not working
2006-12-18 15:35:12 · update #1
It's normal for it to hurt the first few times.
By the way, I think you are way too young to be having sex, but since you are, I hope you're using protection!
2006-12-18 15:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't start liking sex until I was in my 20's. I lost my virginity at 14 and now that I am older (32) and have a bit more life experience, I now know that I wasn't ready for it-mentally. I was so preoccupied and worried about not doing the wrong thing, and doing it right, I never learned to relax and actually let myself get aroused. I was always having sex for the other person, not for me.
My advice is to let yourself grow as a person and not have sex for now. You have lots of time to have lots of sex later when you are more mature. I don't mean to be patronizing but I've been there (and also rejected similar advice-lol) If I only knew then what I know now.....
2006-12-18 23:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being asian has nothing to do with it but you could be small and if he is large and you are anxious then you might have a problem if you are not well lubricated then it will hurt even with a smaller penis try some vaginal cream and lots of lovin first.
2006-12-18 23:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Don W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be having or enjoying sex. And the fact that you are asian, and he is black has nothing to do with any thing. That is the most sterotypical comment I have ever heard. (it makes me wonder about the future)
2006-12-18 23:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by ccwilson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rest yourself til you are 18 if you won't do that for yourself ,use a condom at least
2006-12-18 23:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewww. Inter-racial.
I kid, it's probably because you're not used to it. Are you kids going about this at a good pace or is one of you rushing things?
2006-12-18 23:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by Synth 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Could be because he doesn't prepare you. Talk to him about fore play. It is a must!
2006-12-18 23:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You funny yup.
Uhh.
Yeah the first answer was right.
2006-12-18 23:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well get another asian (small thing)
2006-12-18 23:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by Yup 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
do it more?
2006-12-18 23:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by BuRn Di WiSdOm WeEd 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋