I wonder if I am making a mistake by treating my girl good because when I use to treat her in not a good way she use to pay me more attention now that I treat her in a much better way she's like treats me worse then when I was not to good.
2006-12-18 14:41:05 · 20 answers · asked by David Perez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Treat other how you want to be treated. Nobody wants to be treated badly/
2006-12-18 14:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, woman really respect and love and adore men who treat them well.
Some idiots (men and women) mistake drama in a relationship for passion or depth of feeling. These people are not very smart and you do not want to have a long term relationship with someone like this.
If your girl is acting uninterested in you because you are being a nice guy; then she is not the right girl for you.
You deserve someone who appreciates you for you.
2006-12-18 22:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by krinkn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on...mature women and men do not even need to ask this question, honestly. You do not have to play games if you're in a decent relationship. If you're both attracted to each other, love one another, and are best friends, then you've got it all. Don't risk it by being a dork. Some immature women do play these games, but not the mature ones. Ask yourself the same question: would you dislike a girl because she's "too nice" to you? If she was clingy and insecure it would be because she's clingy and insecure, not "nice." Think about it...and be nice.
2006-12-19 00:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah but the attention she paid you may have been negative attention, borne of doubt or fear, or necessity. Don't buy into that crap about treating women badly; if you treat a woman well and she mistreats you, she's the wrong woman. A good woman appreciates a good man, trust me.
2006-12-18 22:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds sick you need a better g/f she's got issues that have nothing to do with you, so you and her need to have a long talk because you've changed for the better so now the ball is in her court, you should not have to act out of character for attention a mature woman would love and respect you for changing not punish you.
2006-12-18 22:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good results in good. Bad results in bad. Treat her the way you want to be treated, if she is taking you for granted she doesn't deserve you. Make sure you aren't subconsciously attracting brats into your life but a real caring woman who wil in turn bring the man out of you.
Happy Holidays!
2006-12-18 23:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, no even shes treating u like her *****, u dont have to treat her in a bad way, she just needs attention, but at the same time dont treat her like a princess thats what she wants, just b nice but a little hard and when she notice that ure not like b4 shell try to b more sweet with u, and ull c that what she wants is attention but not that much, its a pretty easy question, i do the same when a guy treats me like a princess i act like a *****,. =)
2006-12-18 22:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by brit_avyltth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The big mistake is to treat women too good at first. If you do then when you return to your normal self you have deteriated. Better to treat them a little distantly at first then when you come back to normal you have gotten better. They will be happier thinking you are improving.
2006-12-18 22:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by sm4125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the woman loves you she will respond to being treated with care, love, and respect. If she does not love you and is just spending time with you until she finds someone better she will respond only to the threat of losing her current date.
2006-12-18 22:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i'm a woman and i've been in this situation myself mistreating a woman causes them to sometimes be afraid of men and sometimes feel insecure if you started off mistreating her then it is going to take sometime for her to regain her since of security as well as adjust to the new change this could be her way of scopeing you out to test the water or in more understandable terms to see if you've really changed it's very possible that she may be haveing mixed emotions and not really sure how to act concerning the change but take my advise if you go back to not treating her good you might lose her FOREVER try to pay close attention to the things you do and say to her you might think you've changed and might be trying but you might not see within your self what she's seeing i should know because i've been thru this before and it seems that in this marriage it's starting to happen but unfortuntley in this marriage me and my husband both are having to look in the mirror of self and ask our selves if we really are this way i hope i've helped thanks, sassy
2006-12-18 23:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES A TRUE WOMAN DOES!!!!!!!
BUT DON'T LET NO ONE CHANGE YOU WONDERFUL WAYS... IT WILL PAY OFF AFTER WHILE..
AND SOME TIMES YOU CAN MAKE A W**** INTO A HOUSE WIFE.. THE SAME AS A ZEBRA DON'T CHANGE ITS OLD STRIPES....YOU WILL FIND SOME THAT WILL LOVE YOU YOUR WONDERFUL WAYS.......JUST HANG IN THERE ITS ON ITS WAY... BUT IF SHE WANTS THAT LET GO FIND SOME THUG TO TREAT HER BAD...THAT WHAT IT SEEM LIKE SHE WANTS....
2006-12-18 22:51:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋