but now wants to work things out because of the situation, if you can't accept that he did this is it okay to move on with someone else
2006-12-18 14:35:33 · 17 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, don't move on with someone else. Finish one thing before you start another. Take some time to heal before you get into another relationship.
2006-12-18 14:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your life and you should think of yourself first. Most likely neither of you will be at real peace even if you patch things up. the memories are there and the deed has been done so if you can't accept it now you most likely never will.
Yes go on with life. I would bet you already have found the other. I bet he is cheating on some one as well. Then don't most of at one time or another in one way or another.
2006-12-18 14:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think seriously if this is the kind of man you want to be married to. Not that he will neccessarily change. How much worse will you feel next time. If he had cheated over there it would have been a bit more understandable but when he chooses s1 else over you when you are around it's a different story. I wouldn't accept it.
2006-12-18 14:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by leilacara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter where his going or what his doing..he still did it,and its still bad,so i would move on.Life is too short,and its never too late to be happy for the rest of ur life.Good luck.He only wants to work things out because he knows where his headed..But if you truly love him,and are willing to work things out maybe when he gets back you guys can start all over,but rememver the saying once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-12-18 14:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something only you and he can work out because only the two of you really know what went on. You really need to talk this out with each other and decide if you really want to go on. You are married to each other-til death you do part-
2006-12-18 14:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, he may have been my husband before he went to Iraq but wouldn't be when he came back ... ultimately only you can decide what feels right for you
2006-12-18 14:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do would be for you to have an affair to get him back. I would do it with a guy who you don't even know so that there would be no emotional connection. Email me and I will take care of it for you. It will be tough, but I am willing to do it to save your marriage.
2006-12-18 15:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by joe g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been cheated on, so it's natural you feel depressed and angry, but don't cheat on him. It will make you feel even worse. If you are on a base, call the chaplain or talk to some one in family services. If you are not near a base, find a councilor to talk to.
2006-12-18 14:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta be really sure you have the facts. There is nothing so cold as to dump a soldier during wartime. He made his bed, now he must ly in it. You deserve committment
2006-12-18 14:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is fine to move on. He made his decision. Just because he's overseas doesn't mean that you're not hurt because he was unfaithful.
2006-12-18 14:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋