Does it bother you or make no difference? I have to be honest my husband has put on weight and it's BEER, but he said he will start working out again and cut out the beer!
2006-12-18 14:03:00 · 14 answers · asked by sicilyuk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kris regards your comment as far as my grammar is concerned I am not sure what seems to be the issue?? secondly as far as my husbands weight goes, try reading the question again does it bother you I did not say it that it botherd me! it does not for the record! shame on you comment rather unwarranted !
2006-12-18 14:18:55 · update #1
It does not bother me it actually bothers him!! Fotunately I am not perfect my tummy drives me nuts!!
2006-12-18 14:26:17 · update #2
Hehe. My hubby has gained a bit of weight. But lets just say, he was very sympathetic during my first pregnancy. He got more cravings than i did.
He's almost 200lbs and although I'm 14 weeks pregnant, I was 110lbs a month or so ago.
It doesn't bother me at all, i find chunky sexier than I do skin and bones. LOL, but I love him for many things other than just looks.
2006-12-18 14:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by cawfeebeanz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO. My husband and l have been married 30 yrs and he has gained a little weight especially around the belly section but after 3 kids so have l a little. It wouldn't bother me too much anyway. It's what's on the inside that's more important to me. The only reason l would ever worry about his weight would be if it was a health issue. My husband also loves his beer but if he starts to put on too much weight he will always exercise more. I don't think he would ever cut out the beer. Good luck with that one l think you're dreaming !!! Merry Xmas.
2006-12-18 14:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would agree that it would be helpful if you used proper grammar ( I'm assuming you know how to construct a sentence) --that sentences begin with capital letters, and end with periods. I also understand that this is an informal, casual, forum, but when I read your first line, and find such lazy structure, really wonder how you made it out of the 6th grade...."...was him half the weight he is now?" Geez, hon.
Got a good question? Ask it so you can get a good answer.... see some of the junk on this site? Is yours a question of real concern? Good, because there are some bright people who can help you. But if it's just a joke, then it will get treated as such....
It is interesting that those who do indeed write poorly worded questions, have extreme difficulty saying things that make any sense. It's not just the words, but the question has no meaning..... Read some of the questions above and below yours... "shud i be sory dat mi hsbdn b going wit sum udder grl b/c we be going 2 da weding wit mi mom an shee mit c him wid hir den wat shud i du?"
See the problem yet? I'm not trying to put you down, sweetie, just letting you know that we have no idea who you are, what you look like, your age, nor anythng else. All we have to go on are the words you write. If they express no clear idea, you won't get very many really good answers.
2006-12-18 16:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband weighs a little more maybe 20 lbs more. He is an LSU graduate that played football in college. He is only 29 but I know his added weight is from spending time with me. We do everything together including eating as many buffalo wings and drinking as much as we can. I was about 20lbs heavier and have lost weight but I'm still about 30lbs heavier than I want to be. It does not bother me that he gained because I know how and why he gained it. Working out and keeping in shape takes a lot of time. Time that he would not get to spend with me. He works a job that is not set in hours. He may work a 12 hour day and then have to travel for a week and make meetings and appointments. When he is home he wants to be with me and unless the activity is sex, we're usually consuming something to take the edge off.
2006-12-18 14:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by Love to Love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes my husband was 31 in his waist he now is 36 but i love him any way he could get 300 pound's and bald and i would still love him i married him for the person he is not for what he gains or loses he loves me the same way. he said he like's having something to hold on too well he has that
2006-12-18 14:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by sleepyhead and babykins 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens to women as well. I've seen many questions posted here about women putting on weight after getting married. I think we all (both men and women) need to put forth the effort to keep our mates attracted to us.
2006-12-18 14:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Sortega. Same situation at our house. Man is 6 ft tall and I married him at 140 lbs. He is up to 170 lbs now and looks wonderful.
2006-12-18 14:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband has lost weight and I have gained weight. I now weigh more than he does. He tells me he doesn't care because he loves me for who I am. I hope this helps your perspective.
2006-12-18 14:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hahaha i have been with him for 17 years i have had three kids and can still fit into my wedding dress,, yes he was thin when we met now hahahah yeah,,, 250 hahahah it just happenes,,, i dont really care , but i will admit that i look at men built better , hahahahh it would be nice
2006-12-18 14:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by jennaslab 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's put on a little weight, but he was way too skinny when I married him. He needed to be fed.
2006-12-18 14:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋