Why would a prostitute not wish to fall in love? but try and persuade themselves that they view that man nothing more than a father?? (The prostitute is like...18-19, the man is 35)
2006-12-18 13:54:33 · 10 answers · asked by J.Welkin 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
This is pretty basic stuff. She never had a real father, so she searches for that sort of relationship in other men. She can't fall in love because never having experienced healthy love, it scares the holy crap out of her. She doesn't understand not hurting someone if they (either by choice or by accident) hurt her. She doesn't understand that a simple disagreement doesn't end with someone getting slapped. And of course she has'nt the slightest idea what a deep and meaningful relationship that doesn't involve sex is like.
There fore she chooses the path of least resistance, loveless, you-use-me-so-I-can-use-you encounters with people she knows she can't feel anything for.
The only way to save her is to have her isolated, her addictions treated, and possibly medicated, before any attempt to gain her trust is even made. Good luck, and watch you wallet.
2006-12-18 14:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Soundjata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is having sex with a man and trying to persuade herself that this man is nothing more than a father, she needs help. Why would someone think of having sex with their father. This person was probably abused by her dad. Prostitutes are human and want love as much as the next person no matter what they say. If this person is someone you care for at all, try and get her off the streets and get her some counseling. She seems to be in need of help even if she won't admit it.
2006-12-18 14:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jaded 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think of all my insecurities and little secrets that make me scared to tell, b/c if I did, I risk the people around me not loving me for what I have done. Now, I have never done anything like prostitution before but I would image that you don't feel very good about yourself. If you can't love yourself, how can you even thing someone else could? It's a defence mechanism.
2016-05-23 06:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A young prostitute doesn't see she has other economic options, only a sexual one. She thinks this is all a man wants from women; but she doesn't see that if she has work that she enjoys doing, a man would love her more. Also, she has unfulfilled needs her own father didn't give to her as a child. She is only with an older man, for the kind of love she didn't get from her father, but alas, this is not what the man has to give to her simply becos he is not her father. She will be very disappointed as she avail herself sexually to him, but find that he doesn't reciprocate with the fatherly love she craves.
Such kinds of relationships will never last. She must find therapy for herself to grief the losses of her childhood. When she leaves this one, it is likely she will repeat the mistake again.
2006-12-18 14:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by thru a glass darkly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because to prostitutes, Love is a burden, it keeps them from having fun it makes them stay with the same person for a long period of time, prostitutes value the freedom of life and they go around having sex with all of the people willing, and they get money for it. Uless they are really bad prostitutes, in that case, they would have to pay the guys to have sex with them, and if they did that, then it would lose its point and they are a really bad hooker.
2006-12-18 14:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by somerandomguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because (if they are in a situation where they "have" to be a prostitute) they know they will have to move on and have sex with customers, and even if they can keep seeing the guy he might not want her since she is having sex with other men all the time, and even if he doesn't mind or recognizes the situation or whatever, she might feel guilty when she has sex with other guys becuz they r not the guy she loves. and they will seem even less appealing compared 2 the guy she loves, so it would b more difficult 2 force herself 2 have sex w/ them. it will add new emotions and make things generally more difficult.
2006-12-18 14:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by redundantredundancy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't go expecting true love from prostitutes. They're there for one or two things and that's it!
2006-12-18 13:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money and Love do not mix well.
2006-12-18 15:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by rynay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prostitues view the whole world as sex toys.
2006-12-18 13:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Please don't judge the sisters of charity in spreading joy where
ever they go with one of life's little pleasures.
2006-12-18 14:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by robert m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋