I meet a kind man, he is an africa-american. We chat warmly online. He invites me to go out with him this weekend. Can you show me some suggestions?
Thank you!
This the site we met ^_^ http://www.emilitarycenter.com/inter
2006-12-18 13:27:24 · 21 answers · asked by Linda C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You must be very careful about meeting someone you talk to on-line. He may be sincere and honest, but many people you talk to on-line make up a bunch of lies about themselves and cannot be trusted.
2006-12-18 13:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Meet him if you've talked about enough different issues that you feel safe. However, do it in a very public place, like the mall or a restaurant. If you get any type of feeling that is uncomfortable, do not get in a car with him. However, internet dating is the thing of the present, and works well for many people (speaking from experience here). Many very nice, lonely people don't know any other socially acceptable way to meet new people and are using the internet. My b/f and I have been together for almost 2 years and we met online initially. Just please be careful and LISTEN to your instincts.
2006-12-18 13:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Protect yourself. Meet him at a public place where there are lots of people around. Do not let him come to your home. Get to know him better. Make sure you tell a friend where you will be, and when you expect to be home. Be very careful. Very careful. You really do not know him and he can say anything online.
2006-12-18 13:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
CAREFULL AT FIRST AND LATER i have been in this game for some time .by and large the people are very nice but be carefull . if he asks for money run like hell . dont meet him in a secluded place the first time. give it some time before you become intimate.dont listen to any soft sob story's. Do you want to have children with him ? check him out very carefully. get his license platenumber . if he does'nt have a car , it could be a warning sign
2006-12-18 13:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately that is not a good way to meet a guy. It is risking your safety. Meet in a public, safe place, & be sure to let family or friends know your whereabouts (just in case). Keep a cellphone with you, too.
2006-12-18 13:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1- meet him in a place with a lot of people so you wont feel to unconfterable
#2- just calm down and have fun if you have been chatting with him so often you must have a lot in coman no worrys!
2006-12-18 13:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anime Geek!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to becareful with man you meet online. Because some are married or just sex crazy. Take care yourself, don't let yourself being cheated.
2006-12-18 13:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest if you are going to meet him, do it VERY carefully! Like in a very public place..
Or maybe have some friends follow you, wherever you do end up going (like in a restaraunt..) ?
2006-12-18 13:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress to empress,meet him in a place with lots of people around.
2006-12-18 13:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a public place. drive yourself there and do not be alone with him right now. see how it goes. if you like each other, then maybe next time the date could be more private
2006-12-18 13:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by rhonda3826 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋