How are your children dealing with this??
I'm just curious about this in regards to the general public.
My ex-spouse & I have Joint Custody & "share" the kids just about everyday, depending on our work schedules. He works PM shift & I work Night shift. The kids are doing excellent & have been for the last 5 yrs. My daughter is 9 & my son is 7 yrs old.
2006-12-18 13:17:19 · 11 answers · asked by Daiquiri Dream 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have sole custody, my ex has visitations every other weekend, unfortunately she has not used them in the past 2 and 1/2 years so i guess thats that
2006-12-18 14:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your situation is ideal. Mine is not that way. I have joint custody, and visitation, but she gets the kids most of them time, which I disagree with, and am going about changing that. I think a 50/50 time split would benefit my children. My ex only lives just minutes away, and now its about 80/20. She doesn't want me spending more time with my kids because she is worried they might love me more than her which is just ridiculous. Its not a contest! You are lucky, or I guess what I mean is your ex is lucky to have an ex wife who puts her kids before herself. I admire you
2006-12-18 13:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by ckgene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my ex wife's father made her move 300 miles away in the hopes that I would never see my son again. They ruined my marriage then tried to take away my son
I have him every other weekend and one full week every other month.
It sucks by the way I don't mind the drive to get him although I do not like the fact that it takes up about 10 hours of our time together.
I just want to see him more But no matter what the judge said I don't think that he could made it fair for either one of us
2006-12-18 13:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by kjrj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
regardless of is superb for the youngster. in accordance with age the youngster would have some enter. in the event that they are older they'd stay the place they're going to proceed interior the comparable college. they won't like one discern by using fact they so issues that the youngster perceives as hurtful. A youthful newborn desires greater stability and should be with the discern that provides that. in accordance with artwork schedules that stands out as the mummy or the dad. If one works nights and the youngster is with day care to plenty the different discern ought to be the common care giver. the main necessary subject is that the two mothers and fathers think of approximately what's superb for the youngster. in addition they'd desire to observe that this variations over the years. the two mothers and fathers would desire to appreciate the different discern in front of the youngster and in no way say something destructive approximately the different discern to the youngster. I even have certainly seen the undesirable mouthing happening into the 20's and this does no longer something yet harm the youngster. So be considerate and think of of ways you the two can artwork jointly to make existence superb for the youngster.
2016-10-18 11:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have sole custody and complete responsibility for both my kids. Dad's a dirtbag, who's often in jail for not paying his support. When he is out, he sees the kids maybe once a year. I finally moved 200 miles away so the kids wouldn't realize their daddy didn't want to see them. Now when they can't se him, it's because we live too far away. You and your ex sound like amazing people and great parents. Your kids are lucky to have you.
2006-12-18 13:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tina 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My sons Dad and I have no written arangement nor go through the courts. We just fight really hard to be kind to eachother and let my son go to his Dads whenever either of them would like. And my son is very happy and well adjusted.
2006-12-18 13:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am a single dad and have full custody of my child, he stays with his mum every second weekend (being all she wanted) he is 11 and does very well at all that he tries
2006-12-18 13:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is great, sounds like you both were mature enough to do what was best for the interest of the children. I respect you both for that.
2006-12-18 13:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by m c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have full custody of my children along with my wife
2006-12-18 13:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
way to be functional parents in your childrens lives.
we pay child support, but my husband has never met her. she is 16.
2006-12-18 13:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋