A friend and i are having a conflict and it's really bad. i'm really scared and upset. what should i do?!

Question

This girl i made friends with in fourth grade were like good friends until this year in sixth. she thinks that i told her old crush that she likes him (i didn't he guessed adn went asking himself). unfortunately the guy didn't ask her in the right way and she thinks i told him. i dunno how to explain this to her since i never see her (we communicate by school email) plus she got this guy in my class to emial me to tell me that she despises me. wat do u guys think i should do? she's being really fresh and harsh about it

Answer 1

Try sending her an apology that actually tells her what really happened. You should ask those people why, or how it happened and gather up some evidence I guess. I just send an apology which I really mean. Let God help you, and good luck.

Answer 2

You need to talk to her face-to-face about the situation. Emailing is not the answer when you have a problem. But on the other hand, if you're anything like I am, writing is the best way to communicate your true feeling because you can do it without interruption and you can edit and revise what you say. I'd write down what I want to say, then tell her in person. Just don't read it off the paper. Consider it practice on giving a speech. Hope this helps and best of luck.

Answer 3

Tell her you are sorry.

It does not matter if you are guilty or not to her she got her feeling hurt and is taking it out on you. Ask her to forgive you. It cost you nothing t say "I am sorry". If she won't then she is not such a good friend after all. If she does then give it time and let her get over the hurt. People who are hurt and angry don't want to hear explainations. A gental response turns away wrath (anger) from the bible.
This is a saying I learned the hard way..."The truth is just an excuse to someone who won't listen."
Good luck, I hope you get this resolved favorable.

Answer 4

sweetie, all you can do is tell this girl the truth. I'd send her one e-mail telling her that I did not tell anybody anything, and that's it. she's being silly and immature, and trying to cause trouble and hurt you. but you don't have to let her okay? if she doesn't take you at your word and believe you, then she's not your friend in the first place, and you'd be better off without her. she's super immature for dragging other people into it and getting them to e-mail you.
when you send her this one e-mail, tell her that you want all the e-mail from other people to stop or you're going to get a parent to put a stop to it. her and her friends could get into a lot of trouble for harrassing you. don't worry, everythings going to be just fine.
Good Luck With Everything.

Answer 5

Doesn't sound like she thinks of you as close a friend as you thought she did, if she's going to get fresh with you over something that silly. What you should do is ignore her until she calms down, and wait for her to apologize for being so dumb.

Answer 6

I think you should ask to meet with her (in person) and discuss the situation. After that if she still isn't nice to you ... I hate to say it > she is not worth your friendship. It is easy to say but after having a lot of years of wisdom it is something you learn through the years. And I think if it doesn't work you should devote all your attention and love to your family and friends that REALLY understand you.

Answer 7

I would try to talk to her inbetween classes or whenever you can get a chance. Let her know that you did not tell. If she doesn't trust you enough to believe you, then maybe you are better off not being her friend and letting it go.

Answer 8

Really sounds like she's not worth a friendship if she can't atleast hear you out. Tell her you need to talk. If you still refuses, then it's time to move on, she is not worth it.

Answer 9

that email thing doesn't work. you are going to have to talk to her face to face. emails and letters can't express the things that can be expressed in person.