bound to her family with unsatisfaction. help me
2006-12-18 12:50:18 · 24 answers · asked by renold 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You said it when you said she is bound to her family. You must leave her alone. She is not only married but she is carrying her husbands child. That unborn child deserves the chance at a family and not a broken home. If it does not work out between them once you are out of the picture then you can go to her and let her know how you feel about her and that you are willing to be there for her if she will let you. Don't be the reason that child is not with his/her father. Give them time to try to work through their problems. Chances are it won't work out anyway if she was unsatisfied with her home life before she got pregnant but you can not encourage the problem by pursuing her because it is just wrong. You wouldn't want someone doing that to you if you were married to her.
2006-12-18 12:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by Janet J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you describe is Phase one of a romance. One that of passion where logic takes a backseat. However one of the benefits of being an adult is impulse control and forward planning.Bear in mind sizzling hot passions are replaced with pragmatic concerns a few years down the road, ask any eloper. So putting the passion on hold have a frank discussion about the long term feasibility of this relationship. If the long term prognosis is good go ahead and plan on being together. If not nip the matter in the bud before it gets unmanageable.
2006-12-18 13:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kaliyug Ka Plato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to turn away and go find someone else. She is married and has a child. It doesn't matter what is going on in her family-she is married and off limits.
If you have any decency you will leave her alone. You should not come between a married woman and her husband. If she divorces him, then you are free to pursue her-but not while she is married.
2006-12-18 13:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the child is yours run away together!! She must be a beautiful person for you to feel so deeply for her. BUT did you know her pregnance hormones may be influencing you???
Pregnant women at the time when they start to show instill these protective feelings in men.You many just be wrapped up in emotions that you have no control over....take a step back. Can you afford to support her?? Love and cherish her?? If you feel this strongly...then do it and don't turn back.
Life is so short BE HAPPY!!
O! but remember God gifts us w/ BOTH OF HIS HANDS...if u accept one...you must accept the cosequences of your actions....
2006-12-18 12:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship fast. She is married and having a kid. Its not your concern whether she is satisfied with her husband or not. Think, How will you feel if your wife happens to be doing the same thing to you.
2006-12-21 04:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kushal-Know All 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship that starts as an affair statistically will end 90% of the time. Go find someone who isn't married, both of you will get over it. She needs to invest the energy she has spent on you repairing her marriage.
2006-12-18 12:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by mamadana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? How do you "unknowing" start to love each other? She is a married mama, let her live her life. Do you really want to be with her for the rest of your life and raise someone else's child?
2006-12-18 13:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be wise of you to leave that relationship. Knowingly that you will be the cause of her infidelity towards her husband.
Do yourself a favor.
Find a decent girl whom you can call your OWN.
The best time to do it is NOW.
2006-12-18 12:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not let it go any further... she is married. How would you feel if you were married, and another man was "in love" with your wife and tempting her and so on. What goes around comes around.
2006-12-18 13:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone untill she gets her life straightened out! Stay away and dont ruin her family.. She is MARRIED!
2006-12-18 12:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋