I have a friend who as we get close she touches me more. Like when we talk she'll put her hand on my shoulder or slide her hand down my arm or taps my hand or something like that. I have a tendancy to scowl and today she noticed that and she put her hand on my forhead to "rub away" my scowl. I don't know if she does this with anyone else, but I haven't noticed it at work. and when looking at something she'll put her arm on my shoulder and lean on me or stand really close to where her body is touching mine. But like yesterday she was talking to someone in the back seat and i walk driving and she puts her hand on my upper arm and says something and her hand slides down my arm. or when i'm sitting and she's standing and we're looking at something she'll just rest her hand on my shoulder.
I've never been around someone whose touchy, feely so I don't know. i do kind of get a vibe that she's into girls, but then again she's a very outgoing person and will talk to anyone. what do you think?
2006-12-18 12:30:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't think she's les
2006-12-18 12:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people seem to do this even if they are not gay or lesbian. They invade people privacy by getting to close. eg their face to close to yours. Touching you in a provocative sort of way. Often they never have had a good relationsship with others or are dominant and want to use others Such people can be a real nuisance. They can be of any age or gender.
2006-12-18 15:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by johnirlam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be a lesbian, as Jeff noted, but then again, she may just be the kind of person that likes to show affection by touch. If youre into her, give her a not-so-obvious touch back and see how she reacts...or u could just ask her out of the blue??
2006-12-18 12:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by real-luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds touchy feely, but it could be that she has lesbian feelings for you.
if you feel uncomfortable with her touching you, then you gotta confront her nicely about it. ask her why she always touches you and see what she says.. maybe she will come right out and tell you she has feelings for you.
hopefully you can get to the bottom of her behavior without hurting her feelings one way or another.
if she turns out to be a lesbian and if you have no interest in that, make it clear to her that you aren't into that, but still stay friends..
2006-12-18 12:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just be very touchy-feely. See if she acts like that towards others. She could be into girls. Or she could be both.
2006-12-18 13:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes u!?! If she is so close to u ask her if she likes u or something! That happened to me before and i ask the girl if she was into girls she said yes, I told her i wasn't and 4 her to leave me alone and she did! Maybe this will work for u! Good Luck!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-18 13:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by In_Love_With_ Monkies!!!!!!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know, thatsw sort of creepy.
2006-12-18 12:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might like u she might not u never really can tell
2006-12-18 12:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by xASHx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋