at school im ignored all the time the only one who even seams to no im alive is my basketball coach/baby big brother(long story dont ask) Andrew. everyone else acts like im not even there. i guss this is because im a loser kid that no one likes
2006-12-18 12:30:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
everyone goes thru the 'not wanted' phase. dont get too down or too lonely mate im sure its not that bad an im sure ur not a loser kid that noone likes. i already think ur funny by having a nickname for someone 'baby big brother' im like WTF?! and yes long story, but i will ask!!
2006-12-18 12:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when it seems no wants you around, an attitude can develop. I know because I was in the situation. Because I was very uncomfortable and felt as though no one wanted me anywhere, I became very aloof and defensive. It took me a long time to realize I was projecting an unfriendly, hostile attitude and the feeling no one wanted me around was my own self-image. It's not easy but it helps if you act friendly and make the first step. You're not a loser - just a lonely, hurt person. Make the effort to be friendly to at least one person a day - you might be surprised.
2006-12-18 20:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by neptune 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunetly there are a lot of kids just like you that feel the same way. School wasn't that bad for me but I did feel like most people didn't like me and I didn't understand why. I later found out that most people thought I was stuck up. I never stuck my nose up to someone else or treated people like I was better than them but that is what they thought of me. My point is that maybe because you feel that they view you as a loser you send off the feeling that you are a loner and don't want to be bothered with people. Freek someone out and try to talk to them. Start off small with someone that is similar to you and seems to be a bit of an outcast. Be careful not to get one of them that is a bad seed though. You don't want to follow down the wrong path with someone that is headed towards problems. A bad seed is someone who simply does not care about how bad something hurts another person. They just want to do bad things and do it so everyone knows it was them.
2006-12-18 20:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by Janet J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, you are not a loser, you exist and you matter, and the only person that should matter to is you. Your opinion of you is the most important, and the fact is that most people out there are so wrapped up in their petty existence and so worried about what others think about them, that you should consider yourself the lucky one. Listen younger Brother, you are OK, and a lot of people that I know that were not noticed went on to achieve great things in their lives, and all the cool people got fat, and bald and never achieved one damn thing in their lives past High School.
2006-12-18 21:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never feel unloved. It doesnt matter who you are. As long as you are comterble with who you are the thats ok.
Just try and be open with poeple. Try and show them that you can be a good person. And see if people will want to hang out sometime. All you have to do is make an effort.
And if that doesnt work then see if their is somethign about you that you think you could change that might make your self more interesting
But remeber if you are comfterbel with who you are then why should you change to make everyone else happy, start by making yourself happy
Good Luck
2006-12-18 20:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by ?¿? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact is, no one is a loser; it's all in your head. I used to think like the way you do. Just focus on the little nice things that happen to you and you can be happier. It's hard to make friends anywhere. Here's something to start with: a smile.
2006-12-18 21:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through that stage. Sucks, doesn't it. Just try to talk to people and get to know others. Eventually, you will have tons of friends who will always want to hang out with you! Best of luck, God Bless, and Happy Holidays!!!
2006-12-18 21:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi same thing happened to me. it has something to do with self confidence Good Luck
P.S.
There has to be someone out there to notice you. ; )
2006-12-18 20:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by Janey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we all feel like that..even as adults...it's ok...you are wanted by God, this bad feeling will pass.
2006-12-18 20:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by PhoenixRising 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋