Okay so there are two girls that are really pissing me off. The first girl is really really fake...i kinda hate her. I know it sounds like Im jealous when I say, its really annoying because all the guys are MAJOR obsessed with her. Shes not pretty at all. I swear. I am kinda jealous but when i say that Im telling the absolute truth. The second girl is trying wayy to hard to be popular, I like introduced her to the popular crowd and now it seems like she's ditching me and the popular people like her more. Shes very immature. Shes just really...UGHH...and she thinks shes really awesome. Shes not...and shes not pretty either. What should I do about BOTH girls in a nice way? or not in a nice way. I dont want guys to be obsessed with me...just not all of them obsessed with her!!!
2006-12-18 12:29:22 · 8 answers · asked by ...... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh...and there are no other people to hang out with because it's a smaller school and niether of them have great personalities....like i said, ones fake...others immature
2006-12-18 12:38:41 · update #1
that's kinda bad when there's no one else to hang out with. but just give this a try okay? when you see miss "I'm so fake" being super fake, don't get mad, just kind of laugh, but keep it to yourself. you know how she really is, so just have a little laugh, it'll be your little secret. and when you see miss "I'm so popular" hanging out with the popular crowd, just picture her tripping in front of all the popular people and landing on her snootie little behind in front of them all! that can be your own little secret too!
in time, people will figure these girls out. so don't let yourself get so worked up about it okay? they're not worth it! they're both kind of sad if you really think about it. neither one of them is willing to be true to themselves and be their real selves in front of the people who are supposed to be their friends!
the important thing for you is to keep on being yourself! don't change for these girls or for the fake crowd or the popular crowd. you see, they're all fake in their own way!
Best Wishes With Everything
2006-12-18 13:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, you don't have to be pretty for people to like you (yes it helps sometimes, but its not a major factor), maybe their personalities make them stand out to the popular people. Sounds to me like you are jealous of them, and spend way too much of your time obsessing over the fact others like these girls better to make yourself be seen. Just act like you don't care what they do, and maybe you will be noticed more when the "new" wears off.
2006-12-18 20:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those guys probably just want to have sex with those girls, and then talk about them after they do. when a person is popular, they are popular because of who they are, and not because of who they want to be. fake people are wanna be's, and they don't last too long, so don't worry about that mess. even if u tell them how they are acting, they might not listen to you because they are too busy trying to impress others. if guys are obsessed with them, they aren't obsessed with having a friendship with them-they want something else. don't be surprised when those same two girls end up being called sluts.
2006-12-18 21:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by MissUrban 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them. I know it's hard sometimes, but don't make a fool of yourself by trying to embarrass them or anything like that. Maybe you could get to know them better and become friends with them. And don't diss them. That will make things a lot worse. I hope that you can solve this problem and hopefully become friends with these girls. Merry Christmas and God bless.
2006-12-18 20:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about them. If they don't bother you personally, then just try to forget them. It happens all the time, friends using other friends as ladders to get to the popular group. And as for guys liking them, not all guys like superficial girls.
2006-12-18 20:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by Rawr_Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you just need to find a new group of friends to hang out with and get over these girls and see were that gets you and see if you dont start to get more attention from every one around you
2006-12-18 20:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by sumer h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask them about it! ask if they have a problem with you, stick up for yourself. High School is a war zone and if you don't stick up for yourself no one else will.
2006-12-18 21:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try dising them infront of everyone. like say they dun match or something say. o yea i just wanted to know.. did u get dressed int he dark thi morning.?
2006-12-18 20:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by crystal 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋