this girl i know thinks im a creep. but she still talks to me once every month. i feel shes leading me on, playing with me. i still like her and i want her and her BF to be happy and her and i as "just friends". but i worry that her making me out to look like an idiot will come back at her. will it? :(
2006-12-18 12:19:06 · 22 answers · asked by Melody P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Point blank, it sounds like you like this girl but you feel like you can't have her because she has a bf and only talks to you infrequently. Personally, it doesn't sound like she's playing games, but you know her better than we do. Maybe she *does* like you but she's confused about how you feel. If you're concerned about this, I think you need to talk to her (the best thing you can do). You say she's talking to you once a month; are YOU talking to HER? I hope you guys figure it out. Good luck!
2006-12-18 12:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused. Your name shows you are female but the question insintuates your a male. If this girl is only talking to you once a month than I would assume that she is not interested in you that way. It would be different if she was going out of her way to talk to you on a daily or semi daily basis. If your hoping it will come back to hurt as for her treating you like an idiot it is doubtful. Most of the time it does not so hopefully you can forgive and forget so you don't have issues in the future over it. I would also quit talking to her if she is treating you like that because you are giving her more fuel to talk about by talking to her. If you are a female then maybe she is attracted to you and fighting her feelings for you but I would still stay away from her because if that is so then you will end up hurt if anything does happen between the two of you because she will deny anything ever happened and her cruelness will excellate past what you will be able to handle. Good luck!
2006-12-18 20:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by Janet J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this girl has a boyfriend, and you feel that she's leading you on, but she has no interest in you, then you should just totally ignore her. and look for someone who deserves your attention, because she obvioiusly doesn't! and I'm sorry, but she doesn't even sound like a friend. so I wouldn't waste my time worring about how she's going to look to everyone else! and she can only make you look like an idiot if you let her! so don't let her! and dont' worry about her! you get on with your life, and show her that your life doesn't revolve around what little time she shows you. you deserve much better!
Best Wishes To Ya!!
2006-12-18 20:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear young man, what exactly would be coming back to her? Maybe you are a creep. Maybe you are saying her current bf will leave her and think she is a creep? I for one do not believe in this karma like thinking.
2006-12-18 20:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by swamp elf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what goes around does come around, but did you ever talk to her about how you feel? maybe she don't know that she did something to make you look like a idiot. that's what a friend would do.
2006-12-18 20:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by nansaywon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a true saying that what a person sows that he shall also reap. Although this may happen, one thing we shouldn't do is wish for bad things to happen. At some point and time in her life, we all will have to suffer the consequence for what we have done that was wrong. Just don't look for it. Gods timing is not our timing.
2006-12-18 20:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is mistreating u then y n the hell do u care if it comes back to haunt her? Which 9 times out of 10 it probably will. She needs to learn not to play with people and their feelings.
2006-12-18 20:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing you must remember is you are allowing her to treat you like this. Cut off the ties and you, quit putting you neck in her noose. Let it go and don't even concern yourself about her and her life.....
You teach people how to treat you. You have tire marks across your face from the truck she keeps driving over you. Stop this now and break this cycle.....
2006-12-18 20:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes maybe you will not make her look like an idiot but someone will do it to her you'll see it will happened all my friends come to me for advices and everytime whenever i tell them something that comes from the hear it does come true.
2006-12-18 20:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by ~Beautiful~ & ~Gorgeous~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if zhe thinkz u r a creep then zhe doez not like u very much zhe hatez ya so ztop talkin to her paid her back bi breakin her & her bf up for ever juzt tell him zhe kizz a another guy tell him ztuff that iz not true & that way he will dump her & never tell them that u lied to them keep it a zecret from them forever do it
2006-12-18 20:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by BECCA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋