"Human women are the only female species on the planet that will procreate with a male who offers her absolutely nothing in terms of home, security, etc. Even most species of bird have enough sense to mate only with the male bird that has the nicest, roomiest nest!" (Judge Judy) Men actually diss each other for dating women who are plain looking and down right laugh at men who date plus-sized women. Women don't diss each other for dating down financially. If I date a construction worker instead of a CEO women don't laugh at me. The Question: Why is it that if a woman admits to prefering to date men with money she is verbally attacked as a "gold digger", considered to be a person of low character, a b!#ch or worse yet, if a man admits that he prefers to date women who are look like supermodels and/or have bony bodies that one can only get via an eating disorder this is considered not only an OK preference but NORMAL. Men can want supermodels but women aren't allowed to want rich guys?
2006-12-18 11:58:58 · 6 answers · asked by Jerri B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am a crossdresser and you have confused me real bad.
2006-12-18 12:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I totally understand. I believe that our society has put "boundaries" on what is acceptable and what is not. It is really, really shallow!! I hate that most people on the planet follow these rules or feel like they must follow these rules. Being skinny is obviously unhealthy, yet most men think it is amazing! These women suffer everyday threw eating disorders and then call themselves "beautiful." How sad. Women, as a species, have lowered our standards in the name of acceptance from men. "We" go as far as to torment other women who do not follow these same rules of slow destruction. I believe if there were no men, all women would be "fat" and happy. I think if women would take more time to invest in our education rather than our looks alone, then men would love us for how we are rather than what our bodies look like. I think you are one of the wisest women out there! I believe that it is ok to be attracted to wealthy women, if that is your thing. Don't listen to these dumb-as* individuals who are apart of the "trap of society." They no-nothing about what it really takes to be human.
Good luck
2006-12-18 20:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm dont know what yer talking about..i thought thats how its always been for most females..and i dont see anything wrong with it. I also realize that a lot of women dont need a mans money anymore and therefor can date any guy they want regardless of income..i am ok with that too.. as for men wanting supermodels..well duh..we are visual creatures with lil or no brains..we like "pretty things"...but usually settle for what we can get cuz we dont look as good as we think we do
2006-12-18 20:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by kneelandbob69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, someone must be really, really fat and bitter.
I have no problems with gold diggers, and no problems with men that want supermodels.
2006-12-18 20:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well all i can say is that double standards suck. i mean...you can't just run around trying to convince other people how you feel. you'll get nowhere. just stick to your convictions and surround yourself with people who are like-minded.
2006-12-18 20:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your overweight and angry about it, aren't you...
2006-12-18 20:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by Steve-o 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋