But you thought they were and then you wonder why they are just laughing at your dumbfoundedness, are they being dead honest or is it because they were your friend and they don't want to tell you why they are mad? We have had arguments before. How do I let go having been played without feeling so used?
2006-12-18 11:55:03 · 6 answers · asked by kowalley 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Quick take a deep breath and tell yourself it will be okay. I understand how hurt you are and I know how hard it is to stop thinking about it just stop. Time will heal this wound. She may not be gone, just give her space and remember that no one can hurt you unless you let them.
2006-12-18 11:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by The Animal Psychiatrist♬♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen' All through your life you are going to come across ******* every where. There are some people that get off on hurting other people. You have to learn how to spot them and sometimes there is nothing better than experience. So' let go of it. You learned something. Don't feel used' it's happened to every body at one time or another. You know better now' be more careful about picking friends and always remember you are your best friend. Take care of yourself.
2006-12-18 20:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about choices..the clues were there,
you chose not to see them. You have learned
a good lesson cheap. Just go on your way
and be glad it didn't cost you more.
In the future you will be able to see those types
a lot more clearly. It's a good thing.
Now your choice is to feel pain over this,
or move on feeling grateful for knowledge.
2006-12-18 20:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go girl, let them play their little kid games with someone else. Find other friends. Life is too short to have to mess with people like that. Have a great day.
2006-12-18 20:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to feel bad and used.
This is part of learning about people and because of this experience you will probably never misread a friendship again.
2006-12-18 19:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live and learn. People are going to attempt to use you throughout your life. You have the power to not let them do it.
2006-12-18 19:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋