This is going to sound like a strange question but my friend Ed says he is always horny and when he isnt getting in womens panties, he constantly masturbates. I am like so what? He then says sometimes when he drives by the high school and middle school in his neighborhood, he checks out the girls and then goes home and masturbates to them. He says many have cute little butts. I told him it was too much info. But in reality, should I talk to him or does he need help or is this type of fantasy ok?
2006-12-18 11:43:17 · 13 answers · asked by Kam187 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
it is not okay iof he is in his fifties...........******* weirdo.... but maybe the friend you are talking about is you?
2006-12-18 11:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by BurnMaker 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's another word besides pedophile for men who like teenagers, but I forget what it is. If your friend is telling you this much, there's probably more to the story. He is probably deliberately driving by middle schools. He is probably looking at porn online, and he may be buying porn that is illegally produced, featuring younger girls and children, which harms those children. So, there are victims, even if he's not actively pursuing anyone. He can also be arrested for buying this kind of porn.
But he may be trying to lure young girls into his car, or getting to know them through his friends, which is dangerous to them, of course, but it's also dangerous to him, because he might get arrested or beaten up by someone's father, or even killed. So he's in danger that way.
He's also in danger of getting arrested if he's trying to meet children through the internet. Watch Dateline NBC if you don't believe that, they're helping guys get arrested every week.
What's worse, even if he's just masturbating while he fantasizes, he can get stuck on those fantasies. Right now, he can probably still get erections with adult women, but if he always masturbates while thinking of young girls, eventually he won't be able to get erections with adult women.
Yes, he needs help, and soon, before he gets into trouble or danger. You can try talking to him. You should also keep an eye out to see if he's trying to make young friends, or date women who have young children, which is a common way for guys to access young kids.
If you really think he's doing more than looking, like stalking, you have to face the moral question of whether to report him to the police. You might want to consult with someone who also knows him, or a minister or something.
This guy sounds like trouble. You may also want to rethink your frienship.
Wow, what a story!
2006-12-18 19:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got a friend called Ed who masturbates to cute teenage boys and likes their cute little butts. What the hell is up with guys called Ed?
2006-12-18 12:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jadis, Queen of Narnia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that as long as the fantasy stays a fantasy and he's not hurting anyone then let him be.
If however he acts upon his urges then he should be strung up by his 'tender area' until he can't do any more damage with it.
2006-12-18 12:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by Pazma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him...sooner or later it's going to lead to rape and that's not a good thing...Masturbation is ok...but like come on...he's pretty much stalking people. Tell him to like stop or something because it's going to turn out bad.
2006-12-18 11:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by roflyounotfunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old is this guy?? if he's older than 20 and is checking out high schoolers it's wrong. and if he's old enough to drive, then checking out middle schoolers is just creepy. you should get someone professionaly to talk to him...you might have a pedophile friend there.
2006-12-18 11:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would really keep an eye on him. you don;t want that kind of fantasy turning into reality. personally i think its creepy and disgusting but that's just me. if you think you should talk to him and see if he is a threat or not then do so or get him to talk to a councellor if he is willing.
2006-12-18 11:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not only is it NOT OK but I feel that kind of behavior borders on criminal
2006-12-18 11:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by jay b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it certainly isn't okay - that's called pedophilia. I'd say that he really needs help.
2006-12-18 11:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by talon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont talk to him, he needs some serious help.
2006-12-18 11:45:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋