i want to start usin birthcontrol. it is not for sex just to regulate my period i have herd it can do that. i just dont know how to tell my mom. how do i ??? help!!!
2006-12-18 11:04:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i am in seventh grade. last time i tried she accused me of havin sex. i didnt evn have a bf.
2006-12-18 11:10:01 · update #1
my only concern is that when i am at school it will all of a suden start and now at least three of my teachers and part of the student body know i have my period.
2006-12-18 11:46:32 · update #2
I HAVE NEVER HAD SEX. neone who said i have is stupid. i am a virgin.
2006-12-18 11:47:12 · update #3
Tell her that ur periods are very uncomfortable and that u would like to help them. Just talk to her and if she wont dont it then tell her u need to go to the doc. beacuse it is painful and u never know when ur period is going to come.
2006-12-18 11:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by sultryscorpio_pgi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to your mom first. Sometimes parents get a little over the edge when you mention "The pill". I know I'm a step mom, and wouldn't like it either for my 14 yr old step daughter, however I would do it for her. Here is a website that will tell you if your state you live in will help you (if she does get a little over the edge) with out her permission. If your state has no restrictions you can go to the health department or a planned parenthood near you.
2006-12-18 12:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by gril26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ME too!!! I really don't know how to explain it to my mom and I don't know if we have enough money for birthcontrol. Not only do I want lighter periods, but my boyfriend and I are getting fairly serious and I'd like to have the pill as a precaution when 'the time' does occur. Any advice would be nice for the both of us.
2006-12-18 11:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by Cairo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and talk to your mom. You have to gain her trust. Tell her that its not for sex, and if you started, you two would talk. You need to have a good relationship with your mom. At least ask her to take you to the doctor where you two can talk about your options with your doctor. Personally, I don't take the pill (I'm not that young, either), but I know a lof of girls your ages do.
2006-12-18 11:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by countrygurl587 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you mother is concerned about you being on the pill you might want to have her speak with your doctor so he can tell her that many girls use the pill to regulate their periods and to help with acne (only ortho tri-cyclen helps with acne).
2006-12-18 11:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Preciosa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're not having sex, then tell her you're not. Just tell her you've heard that it helps regulate your period and that's why you want to start taking it. Just assure her that when you do start having sex (If you're not already) that you will definitely tell her. Gain her trust and she should be totally comfortable with it.
2006-12-18 11:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by smile_forever 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
tell her u want to have a more controlled period, dont even mintion sex or else shell think thats all u want it 4
2006-12-18 11:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Lani♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you have irregular periods and want to be on birth control in order to get them regular.
2006-12-18 11:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by robedzombiesoul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mom told me that I should go on the pill. And I was your age.
(it can make your breasts bigger, which my b/f likes) I am still on it. I am 16 now.
2006-12-18 11:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young the take it. whether you have sex or not.
use other alternatives, ask you mom to accompany you to a doctor.
and dont worry much, there are a lot of women who are irregular and they dont die or they still have kids (if thats your concern)
2006-12-18 11:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by johannea 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋