been going on for over a year and he has met her and been to bed with her 4 times
2006-12-18 11:02:35 · 22 answers · asked by magrathelaine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girrrllll yes this is cheating!!! This is a no brainer get out before you get something.... If he cheats once shame on him twice shame on you for taking him back or not leaving when he did it the first time. There is a man somewhere out there for you who will love you and treat you like the queen I am sure you are!
Do not settle for less than your worth, get your self a man and not a little boy who obviously has no self control!
2006-12-18 11:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by Alicia S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck are you still doing with him. If a man really loved you he wouldn't do that to you. Sleeping with another woman and talking to her over a webcam and chatting. I'm so sorry to tell you this but you need to divorce him and quick. I hate guys like that he knows you know so why does he keep doing it. My advice get a divorce before he comes back in bed with you he could have a disease from that tramp he has been in bed with. Well Good Luck but you know what you want.
2006-12-18 20:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by almost married 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's cheating, I'm have the same problem. My husband likes to watch porn rather then come to bed with me, and I had to take the web cam away from him. If he is taking his action that is meant for his wife ( you ) and letting someone Else see his goods, then it's cheating. and if he's been to bed with her, yes it's cheating. Leave him and get a divorce. It's better for you in the long run. You will find someone who will appreciate you for you, not for what you can give and do for them.
2006-12-18 22:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by phoniexashes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you even have to ASK if this is cheating? Sex is Sex. Period. You answered your own question when you said he'd been to bed with her 4 times. I think what you are really wanting to ask is "should I leave him" and that's a question only you can answer. Is he willing to go to counselling with you? Is he willing to sell the computer? Is he willing to never see or talk to her again? If not, you have your answer. It's a tough decision, believe me, I know. I stayed, but should I have left? Probably.
2006-12-18 19:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...he's cheating....if he was stripping that was cheating....my husband is also a chatter with different kind of woman but he's not stripping...he just want to be friend with them,actually i sometimes read about what they are talking and it was about the family,his kids so on and so forth and that means he is not a cheatter...i guess ur husband is fond of doing that..so why don't u ask him what's that for...what's the purpose of stripping with women...only ur husband can answer that question...and not anybody else...try to communicate with ur husband..and for sure u'll find the answer....good luck to u and happy holidays...
2006-12-18 19:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by marian r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that you would ask if that is cheating. YES!! Even before he slept with her the first time he was cheating. You may want to get a marriage counselor if you want to save your marriage. Good luck and stay strong.
2006-12-18 19:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by miss lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. Get an AIDS test now and again in 6 months. File for divorce. If you have caught AIDS from him, have him arrested for involuntary manslaughter.
Do not stay with this loser. He has put your life in jeopardy just so he can get what he wants. Anyone who puts their wants above your needs (health) is not worth your time.
2006-12-18 21:54:09 · answer #7 · answered by Trixiebelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's been to bed with her four times, and you need to know if that's cheating?!
His cheating is obviously not the only problem in your marriage.
2006-12-18 19:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's cheating. Cheap thrills. Selfish. Not acceptable in a marriage. But, I think you already knew that. He is does not deserve a wife.
2006-12-18 19:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by sunny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, in every possible sense of the term, that is adultery.
Do you really need to ask this question? You should already know the answer.
2006-12-18 19:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by helly 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋