2006-12-18 10:40:13 · 7 answers · asked by A kid 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
HEY DAVID.....,WITH ALL THE COMMUNICATIONS DEVICES OPEN TO YOU ,YOU CAN E-MAIL HER ,TALK TO HER WITH YAHOO MESSENGER,CALL HER ,LOOK AT EACH OTHER WITH WEB CAMS WITH YOUR COMPUTERS,TEXT MESSAGE EACH OTHER....IF POSSIABLE ,TAKE A FLIGHT FOR A DAY OR TWO AND COME BACK. THERE ARE MANY OPTIONS OPEN TO YOU .....AND IT IS TRUE THAT ABSENCE MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER. If YOU DIDN'T MISS HER ,YOU MIGHT NEED TO RE-ASSES YOU RELATIONSHIP. YOU ARE NORMAL, NO COUNSELING NEEDED... REJOICE.
2006-12-18 11:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by empathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you need her. Nothing wrong with that. It's funny because I'm old enough to understand that it really isn't a big deal. We're talking about another city! Not another country, right? Just another city. Big deal!
Let me tell you; when I met the right one, I was on a work assignment in China. I was married. I could barley speak her language. But, I knew, in the way only a man can know.
It was hard but I made a move.
I left my job, my wife and my country for love. Everybody's voice pissed me off. But it was necessary. It worked, because I worked to make it work.
Look, if you are dying inside, and she loves you too, no one is going to kill you for getting with her. You won't ruin your life, but you will change it.
Good luck!
2006-12-18 18:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lightbringer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person only needs counseling when an issue significantly interferes with their life functioning. Simply missing someone is not considered a mental health issue. No longer functioning effectively as the result of an emotion is a mental health issue.
2006-12-18 18:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm. no u miss her, call her or go see her but ya dont need counsiling.
2006-12-18 18:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by americangurl92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure u dont its normal to miss a loved one
but if u think u need counseling go for it
its always good for one..:)
2006-12-18 18:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by mari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, You need to go and see her!
2006-12-18 18:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by kisses 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-12-18 18:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋