I am 24 years old and married my husband who is 38 years old for 5 years.When we met i was interning for a job in PR.Now i am just a house wife of 4 years with little or nothing to do most of the time because there is a maid who will clean and cook if asked. My husband takes good care of me giving me whatever ever i want i drive a nice car BMW and nothing is really off limits on what i can buy if i want it. I try my best to please him i am 5 ft 7 and 115 pounds so i keep fit and i take good care of myself.We have sex 3 to 4 days out of the week usually 3 rounds each but he has still had three affairs.I found out about he had another affair and flipped said i was going to divorce him.He got mad and threw me down got a garbadge bag threw some of my stuff in it took me by my hair to the door.
2006-12-18 10:38:58 · 9 answers · asked by Cally M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I walked out of my own home with two garbadge bags of clothing , shoes, bags and a dog.He would not even allow me to take my car he called me a cab!He told me to come back when my brain was working.I am sleeping on the couch of a friend right know.
2006-12-18 10:42:36 · update #1
I still love him though i just dont want him to cheat on me!
2006-12-18 10:44:51 · update #2
Walk away now and get to a divorce attorney.
Ask for spousal support and go back to PR.
Good luck.
2006-12-18 10:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your things and get out of there. That kind of behavior is not acceptable in a civilized marriage. If he has physically handled you once shame on him if he does it twice shame on you for being there. This man doesn't want a wife, he wants a beckon call girl. Also there is a considerable difference in your ages. He sounds more like a Dad instead of a husband. Be afraid and run as fast as you can.
2006-12-18 18:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by sunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like u enjoyed the life style and is willing to accept his behavior after what his done , i don't think he cares about u Ur just another pretty face as soon as u show some signs of aging he will leave u for a younger and better looking girl , he ge some self respect and show him that u don't need him or his car or his money
2006-12-18 19:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he has full control over u and u are letting him.
If he makes u happy, stay with him, but for heavens sake do not put up with any type of abuse, it aint worth the happy life.
If he even attempts to ever get violent, get the hell out and seek help.
2006-12-18 18:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you filed a police report and sent his dumb a s s to jail for domestic violence! Why would you want all the material stuff when you don't have love, honor and respect? Leave him and get someone who will love you no matter what and not cheat.
2006-12-18 18:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He beats you and cheats on you and you still love him and want him back? Sadly, he doesn't seem to return your feelings or he wouldn't treat you so abominably! Get as far away from this self-absorbed monster as you can and don't look back!
2006-12-18 19:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh he is in the wrong here not you you should have been sticking money in to a private account long ago. if you have proof of his affair or affairs make copy's and get a divorce. if he loved you he would not be sticking his Dicky in other Chickie's.
2006-12-18 18:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce
lawyer
file a report!!!! OMg
2006-12-18 18:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by SuWizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes having power over you.
don't let him have it.
he's a pig. leave him.
2006-12-18 19:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋