my husband who has been gone since 3/25/05 is coming to visit the two boys we have together on thursday for about two hours. how do you think i should handle him if he steps out of line and ask to move back home? I don't want him back. we have been married for 8 1/2 years and i have only lived with him for 3years and 10 months. i'm tired of the rollercoster ride. help me please!!!
2006-12-18 10:13:05 · 6 answers · asked by sweetgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him its a visit for your children only, be kind and patient for the kids sake. But if he asks to move in so soon, speak from your heart and the truth. You are either through with him and the rollercoaster ride or not. I wouldnt allow him moving back in without a long time process of dating and trust rebuilding first if that is what you want to do. If he is really serious he will wait and do whats right if not then a swift kick out the door , have the kids meet him outside the home, and you should file for a divorce to move on with your life. Follow your heart, but only along with your mind.
2006-12-18 10:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by angeltears 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before he visits, let him know this is about visiting the kids only and if he starts in about wanting to move back home, you will ask him to leave.
2006-12-18 18:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you don't want to be with him. And for the love of God go file for a divorce and be done with this. He is holding you back in your life.
2006-12-18 18:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
restraining order
this guy's too weird. don't play around.
I mean if he wants to be part of the kids' lives it has to be on their terms, not whenever he feels like it. and yeah that divorce is long overdue.
2006-12-18 18:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by Boludo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SAID IT HE IS STOPING BY TO SEE YOUR KIDS. JUST SET BACK AND LET THEM ENJOY THE TIME. DO WEAR ANYTHING THAT WILL LET HIM UNDRESS YOU IN HIS MIND.
JUST REMEMBER THAT YOU DON'T WANT HIM BACK.
HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT WHAT HE IS THINKING
AND IT IS NOT TO JUST SEE HIS BOYS
STAY STRONG
2006-12-18 19:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by you have ? i have a answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go some were with the boys that day and relax .
2006-12-18 18:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by crazyasianchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋