the farthers parents of my unborn seem 2 be takin ova, ill stay round his and his parents will give me completly different food she be in his brdroom nearly all night tlkin 2 me she tells every1 and i didnt want any1 2 knw cuz my mum dnt knw yet, and the ova day she took me and jer son out baby shopping telling me wat i should get, also soon aftr my 1st appointment wiv the midwife she was lookin thr all my personal stuff and sayin make sure u put dwn all his details (herson) and give them his name and address and stuff and its all just gettin 2 much 4 me wat woul;d u do?
2006-12-18 09:52:58 · 15 answers · asked by xjoesyx 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Really hard to understand your question, but I'll take a stab at answering.
Sounds to me like your mom-in-law is just really excited about having a grandchild. I can understand that you may be feeling a bit smothered, but let me tell you, when that baby comes you are going to be grateful for her help!
In the meantime, my advice is when she starts giving you advice, just do the old "smile and nod" trick. When you are feeling overwhelmed by her, either go home or you can always say you are feeling tired and need to lay down for a while.
Good luck!
2006-12-18 10:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mary L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be pregnant. That "not being pregnant until you have had your period" thing is very similar to the "you can't get pregnant in a pool thing" I can assure you it is possible. It is however, unlikely. Many woman do not get their period for a couple months after the baby is born, if they are breastfeeding. It will vary from woman to woman, it could still be a couple of months before you get it. I would recommend you take a pregnancy test, just to put yourself at ease. Good luck.
2016-05-23 05:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to set bounderies. The invisilbe fence where you begin and she ends. That is ridiculous! Stand up for yourself girl. That is ridiculous. I will tell you from my experience with setting bounderies, the other person may throw adult temper tantrums and try making you feel olbigated and put guilt trips on you. They will try to make you feel bad, but that is only them throwing a tantrum for not controling you... Basically if it was me, I would be, 'the more behave repspectfully, the more you are welcome in my and the babies life.' Don't threaten them. Don't tell them that they can't see the child, grandparetns have legal rights in court. Just say 'you are welcome when you can show repsect'. As for your boyfriend.. if he doesn't stand up for you and your personal rights... then I don't know if you will be happy with him for years on end. Would he choose his parents over you... Either way, you need to do what is best for you. And you as a mother need to do what is best for your baby. Besides the stress when you are pregnant is not good. When I got pregnant (I am single), i had to send alot of people out of my life.. and when they could be respectful, I let them back in
2006-12-18 10:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let your Mom know. Hopefully you can talk to her about it. She has been through it before and her guidance could be priceless. But all that depends on the family dynamics... She is going to find out eventually. Once she is involved, your boyfriend's parents time will be taken up by your parents and you will have more time to think about what you need to do.
2006-12-18 09:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would be telling her to "back off." Don't be mean about it, however, just explain that this is your child and all the decisions are up to you and the father. Have him talk to her. Just don't let her run YOUR life. If it has already started then it will just get worse. Stop it now!
good luck and best wishes
2006-12-18 09:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by sassyfriend16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...please learn how to spell before the baby gets here...you don't want to embarrass him by having an illiterate mama! Second...give it time...it is over whelming in the beginning. Good luck!
2006-12-18 09:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by ascloud@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best I can decipher from the poor grammer is that you are feeling like the baby's daddy's mother is taking over. I wouldn't tell her anything that I didn't want her to have her hand in or that I didn't want told to everyone.
2006-12-18 09:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by blessedtexasmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
huh? i'm sorry, i REALLY tried to understand the question, but i couldn't. what's "ova"? are you old enough to care for this child? if you could email me with a little clearer question, maybe i can help. sorry.
2006-12-18 09:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We tend to speak english in the united states...there is such thing as SPELL CHECK
2006-12-18 13:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by jennnnnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I hope you learn english before your baby is born so you can teach it to speak properly!
2006-12-18 09:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋