How do you tell a coworker that her husband is cheating on her with his secretary?

Answer 1

Stay away, stay very far away......

Answer 2

Ever hear about the "Shoot the messenger" syndrome? Keep out of their business or YOU will end up being the loser. She will find out in due time without your help. In many cases the spouse is in major denial. I've been there before and resented anybody having the need to tell me that my partner was cheating on me. The information forced me to make a decision that I wasn't prepared enough for. Just remember that the way to hell is paved with good intentions. Amen!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

When some people see this question they will most likely say its none of ur business but is this coworker of urs a good friend? does she help u out when u need it during work? if so then u should tell her but there is a chance she might think that ur either lying or why are u telling this to her when its none of ur business, and how do u know? anyway just tell her if u want to but think of what she might say...well good luck with whatever u decide to do

Answer 4

You don't. It's between the two (or three) of them and none of your concern. I certainly wouldn't appreciate hearing something like that from a coworker. Getting involved in a marriage is iffy even if it's a friend or family member, but a definite no-no between coworkers.

Answer 5

You don't tell. Stay out of it or else you will cause trouble for yourself, especially in the work place. You don't want things to escalate & lose your job over something that is none of your business anyway. I'm not trying to be rude, I'm being straight. If someone is cheating. It's not your concern, so keep yourself out of trouble by minding your own business. I know what it's like to have co-workers who just love to gossip & pass it around. You guys can make a better work place by just going to work, do your job & mind your own business, because that's all your there to do. Your there to work so you can pay bills. Your not there to gossip or cause trouble for anyone. I don't care if it's a close co-worker. STAY OUT OF IT.

Answer 6

Ok, i don't think you talk spanish, so ill give you a tip:

there's this show called La Fea Mas Bella( ask 4 some1 to translate) and the main character is secretary to presidency to a company. the president is supposed the marry his beutiful coworker(his secre is ugly FYI) but in order to save the company, he gave his secre $$$ so she can raise a company. but to make sure she's on his side, he starts going out with her. then on her birthday, she asks for sex, so he does it. stupid move, huh? then, after he had sex with her,he starts to fall in LOVE with his secre. but he doesn't tell his fiancee anything. so to save the company, he practically GIVES the company to his secre, and he has sex with her, AGAIN. and he knows he has fallen in love with her, 4reals. and, again, he denies haveing any sexual relationships the his fiancee. so then, the secre finds out that it was all a plan to save the company, but he played dirty with her and never told her any thing (im not going tho get into much detail). so when the meeting of the Commitee cam, she gave everyone a copy of the real balance of the company instead of a makeuped balance. then, to finish it off, she gave his fiancee all the love letters and gifts he gave her to keep the company. so the wedding was canceled, and ...u can gues how it must've been.

Im 12, jut so you know

Answer 7

Are you his secretary... Or if you are a boy, Are you in love with her?
Why don't you rather confront the guy? that would be more mature instead of causing a conflict. Help this guy to see how much his wife is worth and what he is risking.

Answer 8

You don't you mind your own business. What do you have to gain from telling this women this bit of information; possibly tearing her heart out. A friend told me many years ago, if you know one is cheating on another. Just mind your business. "Shut mouth grace" you never know how much one cares about another, and you may contribute to a murder. Leave your mind on your own business. She will find out soon enough. If she is this much of a friend, then just be by her when she does find out, and offer support. Good luck and God bless****

Answer 9

thats a tough one. lets see i think i would write it in a letter and have it be annonomous. but they may not believe it so maybe try to figure out a time when you know the cheaters will be cheating and try to get the spouse there. if you are close to the co-worker perhaps they will trust you if you just honestly tell them in person everything you know or have seen.

Answer 10

You don't. Stay out of it. Your meddling is only going to create more problems than it solves. The situation will come to a head prematurely and you will become directly involved.

Answer 11

You don't. It's none of your business. And she probably already knows anyway. If it was your sister that would be a different story, but at work it just gets ugly and could turn out really, really bad for you.