I really want to loose my virginity but im not sure if i should??????
2006-12-18 09:10:01 · 50 answers · asked by SeXiBrItTaNy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you should wait
2006-12-21 01:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be patient losing your virginity is a special thing and you should lose it to the one you love when your married. Your only 13 you have your whole life ahead of you. Dont let your hormones get in the way of having a great future. This boy is 16. His mind set is totally different from yours. He probably just wants to have sex with you then move on to someone else. So whats the point of just giving your virginity to some guy you talked about having sex with. Its really stupid. I know you may not think so but it is. Im sorry if that sounds offensive but im telling you that you will regret it. Wait till your married and follow the Bible. Because premarital sex is a sin and is not a very smart thing to do. But just dont do it. Its not worth it. If your together with this guy and he says you if you really loved him you would do it. But thats just a sign saying he only wants sex from you. Or if its your hormones just try to control them as best as you can. One day you will be very grateful that you saved yourself for the one you love. You will also be happy at the fact that you saved yourself from getting any STD's or pregnant.
2006-12-18 11:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by Questions ^_^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl your just 13. you have plenty of time to lose your virginity. Having sex is something you should not rush. I know you have heard the story about waiting til your married. I encourage you to do that but I also say that you will know when the time is right. Sex comes with a lot of emotional stress and other things like babies, std's or even AIDs which is deadly so think twice before you decide that it is your time. But I assure you that it(SEX) will be much more enjoyable if you wait.
2006-12-21 12:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by MonsieB. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? DON'T. Can you talk to a grown up friend that is really nice and smart like your mom, your aunt, grandma? Please find other things to think about like books, movies, girlfriends, school, sports, etc. Start realizing what a wonderful girl you are and all the things you want to do with your life and the places you want to go. Start to dream big dreams and then spend time making plans to make those dreams come true for yourself. You have plenty of time to eventually meet a great man and experience sex. Now is not the time. You will not feel good about yourself, could possibly get a STD and may get pregnant. Why would you want to hurt yourself like that?
2006-12-18 14:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by kimberlygorglione 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, there is no rush for sex. Please take your time and realize that at thirteen years old, sex really shouldn't be a priority. Think of the things that could happen and what it could do to you for the rest of your life. I'm 21, and one of my friends became pregnant at 14. She is now my age with a seven year old. When I am asking her if she wants to go hang out with us, or go to a party, time and time again she tells me no, becasue she can't find a babysitter, or she has to stay at home with the baby. For just a moment picture your life with a baby. School would be harder, and with a baby you have to stay at home, you wouldn't be allowed to go out with your freinds, and years down the line, the baby would still be there, waiting on you to take care of it. Though you might not get pregnant, at least from this experience, there is always the possibility. My friend was so scared when she got pregnant, and there are still times that she cries wishing she would have made another choice. Don't ruin your life becasue of a hope or a want. Sweetie, there are still girls that are my age that I know that still have thier virginity, and they are BEAUTIFUL girls, they just know what they want to come first in life, and that's them, not boys and definitly not babies. Be careful sweetie, there is a lot of reponsibility when it comes to sex, and the last thing you need in life is a child, when you are still a little girl yourself. You have any other questions, feel free to write me anytime lilollace@hotmail.com. There is a LOT you need to know about sex before you even try it... PLEASE if you have questions, write me.
Take care, and don't give in!
2006-12-18 09:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by Lasa 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hon, giving up your virginity is such a big step. That should be saved for the man you marry and at 13 that would be just wrong. I would suggest you wait, also 16 year olds are only wanting basically one thing and they really don't care who they hurt to get it and at your age all you would be to him is a notch on his bedpost. I would tell him no and stay away from him if he pressures you. If he tries to force you kick him where it counts and tell your parents because it's wrong in many ways and the only one who will get hurt is you.
2006-12-21 09:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Georgia Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all you are too young for sure. 2nd sex when you are that young isnt any fun!
Are you comfortable enough to ask him about protection and are you on the pill? Have you talked with him about how many other people he has slept with and if he isnt a virgin has he ever been tested for STDs?
You will have a much better experience if you wait till you are older and with someone that you trust. When you are comfrotable to be naked with someone else and see your partner that way as well. Otherwise its lights out and over in a couple mins and TOTALLY not worth it!
2006-12-18 09:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait, at 13 you are way too young for this. You should only consider losing your virginity when you are ready for the responsibility of sex. If you are not ready to consider being called mommy, don't. It really does only take one time to get pregnant. No birth control is fool proof, there is always a chance of getting pregnant. It only takes one good swimmer!
2006-12-18 09:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Jinny E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, you should not have sex with anyone until you are an adult. You could get pregnant or get a terrible sexually transmitted disease. You need to have some self respect and if you lose your virginity you will never get it back and I promise you that you will regret it. Do not have sex until you are ready to raise a child and be a good parent.
2006-12-18 10:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by hugsandsmilesplease 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it. . . besides the possibility of pregnancy (and that's a GOOD chance because there is NO 100% safe sex) and STDs you need to know he will leave you as soon as he's got what he wants. Besides why would you want to have some guy masterbate inside of you just to get his jollies.
The ONLY thing you can give to your future husband that no one else can give is your virginity. Don't screw that up!
2006-12-18 10:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel is right. My little sister wants to lose her virginity. Just because you want to don't mean you should. If you feel as if your body isn't ready then honey don't do it. You need to find out if this boy really loves you. Don't just lose your virginity to anybody lose it to that person you love. LOVE! not lust for. Make sure you're ready and that this boy doesn't have a rep 4 takin chiks virginity then leaving..... I'm not gonna tell you what to do b/c im not your mom but if you do have sex make sure you use protection. You're to young to have sex and also to young to get pregnant!!! Be safe....
2006-12-18 09:19:43 · answer #11 · answered by I_Love_ma_kidz 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋