BTW* I cheated on him in the very early days of our courtship.
2006-12-18 09:02:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he doesn't want to know because it would hurt him & he'd have to break up with you. Ignorance is bliss.
2006-12-18 09:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Candy C 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You are sick. why are you even asking him that question? you must want him to know. In fact, you should come clean & tell him the truth. This is a dark secret you got, a major skeleton in your closet. I absolutely will not support you with an answer just so you can save your own a s s. I despise cheaters, it's not a good thing what you did. He deserves to know, if you don't come clean, bad karma will come around you soon enough because what comes around, goes around.
2006-12-18 17:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You told him you cheated the minute you asked him a question like that. That doesn't have anything to do with love but it has everything to do with trust.
2006-12-18 17:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That don't mean that he don't love you most men don't want that info like women do remember men are totally different from us wont you leave the past in the past and focus on the here and now.
2006-12-18 17:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a guilty mind. Why would he want to know he can't trust you? Why would you ever want to tell him you cheated on him? Sounds like you are looking for an excuse to leave him. To hurt him. Sound like you don't love him.. and it sound like he loves you. As he trusts you. You need to examine your heart and be honest with yourself.
2006-12-18 17:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by NIck N 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would not want to know if my partner cheated on me. He loves you enough to be happy to go on not knowing. He knows that if he knew the truth, that would probably be the end of your relationship.
2006-12-18 17:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was crazy to ask him that..the worst thing to do is ruin your fiance's trust in you...You keep it up, you will be by yourself...why are you trying to ruin something that may be going well now if you don't do something else crazy and ruin it for yourself....
2006-12-18 17:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man has never asked about my past either. It doesn't concern him. Maybe there are things he doesn't want OR need to know.
2006-12-18 17:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it sounds to me like YOU don't love your fiancé; why would you ask him a question like this? He's wise enough to leave past in the past, but it doesn't seem like you are.
2006-12-18 17:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about him not loving you, but I bet he doesn't trust you.
DO NOT get married until this is fixed.
2006-12-18 17:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋