2006-12-18 09:00:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey, I think we married the same guy! It is hard sometimes, but mine will go out if I tell him I need to. Everyone has to compromise. Good luck! I hope yours is as wonderful as mine in every other way!
2006-12-18 09:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely you knew what your husband was like before you married him. Then again l guess they say opposites attract. If you are having a hard time dealing with the way he is, speak to him and tell him how you feel and perhaps you can come to some kind of compromise for your differences. Besides that l guess you may have to do a lot of socialising on your own as you may not be able to change him at all. Good luck and Merry Xmas
2006-12-18 09:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading a Q like this makes me wonder why you ever married this person. It seems to me that people are so quick to marry without thinking about practical issues. This is one of said issues that should have been considered before you got married! You have very different social habits; how could this not affect your marriage??
2006-12-18 09:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by danika1066 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me just say. I just ended a 10 year marriage for the same reason. He never wanted to do things, we went out with out him to the movies, dinner and even vacations! It was awful.( that isn't the only reason I left ) he just wanted to say home or go to the same old friends house. I tired complaining, begging and bribing him to go. Marriage is compromise, you both have to give and take. And when only one is doing the giving it wont work. Tell him how you feel now!
2006-12-18 09:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by Orleanslady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is who he is. Not everyone in this world is outgoing and sociable. As long as he treats you well, don't make an issue out of his personality.
2006-12-18 09:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need be upset about this. There are ways to make him agree what you want. Since you are newly married you can give him some favors he wants, if you know what I mean and he will then do whatever you want.
2006-12-18 15:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to find it very difficult, just try to match with him for sometime try to avoid socialising for few times infront of him and make him realize that you are changing yourself for him and then see after few attempts like that from your side he will himself ask you for some parties or get together like somethings and slowly but steadily he will start socialising and that will be more easy for you i guess....
2006-12-18 09:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by justforu_forever6480 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I'm in the same boat! My wife works hard so she is always tired. Once we finanlly get out, she has a blast, but its the intial push out the bed and out the door. I think the more friends you can get your spouse with the more they will want to go out into civilization.
2006-12-18 09:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by Gyasi M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be my wife.
You knew this before you got married. Deal with it.
Over time this will likely get better, as you mature and become more of a homebody and he meets you in the middle and loosens up a bit.
Keep your chin up. I predict success here.
2006-12-18 09:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine is the same way. We have some things that we really enjoy doing together, and we go out and do those. But for the most part he's happy as a homebody, so I go out on my own.
2006-12-18 09:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋