I'm American& my fiance is Arab, when I get mad at him I call him a stupid camel, is this racist?

Question

My sister says it is , but I don't mean it in that way! I'm really playing! Should I stop?

Answer 1

No, don't stop. He should just call you a "stupid, fat, double-bacon cheeseburger." It fits very nicely with the American stereotype, so he can call you this when you call him a camel. Then you can both be idiots.

Answer 2

Your sister has nothing to do with you or your fiance, but imagine you have a child and someone calls him a stupid camel because his daddy is Arab.
I'm married to one myself and I was married to one before him and I never had either one try to take my kids away from me. My ex tried once and my husband put his foot down.
That is a bunch of crap. Arab men marry you and take your kids away from you. If it happens it means the man was weak in the first place. I have see these men in postions where the family tries and convinces them to marry someone they want them to marry, and the case I know of the man fought hard to stay married to his American wife.
with my marriage his family couldn't understand why he wanted to marry an American in the first place.
I had to say these things because I saw those other posts.
Yet, if you are having doubts about anything that has been said by others talk to him and you don't get a straight answer don't marry him.
So remember refrain from the name calling it's not good and why would you want to say that to a man you want to marry it is very disrespectful. I mean what if he called you a white Bit***?

Answer 3

I don't know but I wouldn't want to be married to a Arab, why in the world you marry one for. If children are born they'll take those children and take them back to Arabia and you cant get them back, unless you find someway to steal them. I just wouldn't want to take that chance, not just that but your customs are different. I know a girl married some foreign from I think India, he cut all the legs off her furniture, they sat in the floor in chairs to eat and all. He took a whole walk in closet and made him a prayer room and set in there for hours. We both worked at a Oil Co. in Houston. One day she come stepping with a dress wrapped all around her with a veil over her mouth and her nose was infected he made her put a ring in her nose and a little red dot between her eyes right above the bridge of her nose. It was her furniture cut the legs off of the bed, in tables. No legs on any furniture. She was Spanish girl., I told I'd kick him out with all furniture on top of him . She said she was scared of him. WHEW .She had to wear a veil over her hair, that done it for me.

Answer 4

I don't think it's racist. If you said "Stupid Arab" then yes it is.
Anyone can be called a camel.
I think your sister thinks it's racist because there are camels where he comes from, nevertheless, it's not racist.

Answer 5

Not only is it racism, its also anti-animal. What did the camels do to deserve having your fiance placed in the same group as them?

Answer 6

Yes you should stop this. It does not matter if you are playing, you are being very racist.

If you overheard someone saying this to anothe person, you would not think it was funny.

Answer 7

i'm sorry that happened. i understand the way it feels to pass surfing and notice such issues approximately human beings of your race or your self. understand that no longer all human beings sense this way and the small team who do do no longer understand what it potential to be a real American!!

Answer 8

No question about it. It's racist even if you are joking. Do you want your children to be called that? Think about it honey!

Answer 9

Yes very just think if you have kids how would you feel if other kids at school sstarted calling them that ?

Answer 10

You are an idiot.

Disclaimer:(I apologize for offending all of the idiots of the world).