okay this is dumb i know but im scared to have sex with my B/f cause he wants a baby and i dont and this would b my first time and im afraid hes going to try and get me pregnant on purpose what should i do ?
2006-12-18 08:33:24 · 7 answers · asked by breezi00015 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
so tell him you don't want to get pregnant and if he doesn't respect that then forget about the guy, who needs a guy who won't respect you??
2006-12-18 16:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with him, you are not ready! You clearly don't trust him. If you do decide to have sex, you need to take 100% of the responsibility to make sure you don't get pregnant, because it sounds like he takes 0%. Get on the pill, AND use a condom.
There is no way to justify having sex with a person that you don't trust with your body. He has no right to decide that you are going to have a baby. He may say the sweetest things, tell you he loves you, and say he'll never leave. Doesn't matter.... No respect for your feelings = no sex.
Good luck.
2006-12-19 12:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im havin the same problem with mine and every time we get the chance to I have an exuse not to and I say next time but now he keeps talking about it so I decided to tell I didnt want to and he said okay and he actually apologized for asking so many times w/o talking about first but now we do have sex but he willingly uses a condom. So maybe you and your boyfriend should talk and then see how that goes.
I hope this was some help.
2006-12-18 21:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by MoMo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl... sweety. Don't get pressured into doing something you might regret. If you love him, and he loves you, then he needs to respect your body and your wishes. If you don't want a baby then you shouldn't be forced to get pregnant.
If you want to become sexually active with him, that's fine! Just remember that your actions have consequences and that they are things YOU can do to prevent pregnancy. For example, you can use a female condom, or you can have condoms for him in your purse (get the kind with spermicide), or you can get on birth control, go to your local planned parenthood or OBGYN.
I included some websites about the female condom (because not alot of people have heard of it) and about planned parenthood (so you can find the one in your area)
Stay Safe and GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-20 01:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by Buckwild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all You must NOT make love with a person you DONT trust!!It is very important that you trust him not only for the first time but for all the times you are going to have sex with him.Then you have to tell him you dont want a baby.If you want to be more sure buy condoms and make him wear it before he gets in you.
2006-12-22 09:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by elko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you feel he loves you and he truely loves you..even though he wants a baby, he wont want to try to get you pregnant, because he knows that aint what you want, so if you are scared,then you two should wait
2006-12-20 02:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by xxluvsickbabigurlxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it, instead talk to him about your feelings
2006-12-20 05:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋