I have been with my girlfriend for a little over a year now and I love her very much. I just don't know if she loves me as much as she says. She really don't pay any attention to me and she don't seem to wanna be sexual with me unless I'm doing something to her. When I need her the most she's on the phone with her ex girlfriend. The other day I had a problem with my ex and our daughter and my new girlfriend called her ex to get legal advice instead of tring to help me. I feel like sometimes she don't love me but then there are the very few times that she does really make me feel special.
2006-12-18 08:28:17 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i think she loves you, but she may still be battling scars of some sort. she doesn't seem to be willing or able to totally open up emotionally and express feelings.
has she alway acted like this? or is this a new development
have a chat with her and let her know you are concerned. maybe she can reassure you her love, or maybe she has a problem she is dealing with.
love and relationships have to be based on trust and comminication.
her lack of sex drive might also be a sign of depression or anxiety.. hard to say. could be something else in life bothering her.. does she have a job she hates? any other issues?
you seem like a very sweet girl and you deserve to be loved. hope it all works out for you!
2006-12-18 11:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she really loves you.
If she can't talk to you and goes to her ex-gf then thats a sign.
You and your ex have a daughter so your ex will always be part of your life. Your new gf should accept that and try to help you. Not go to her ex who has no business.
I think you should sit down and REALLY talk to her... tell her it hurts that shes not paying attention to you and it always seems shes only sexual when you start something. Thats not fair to you.
There are days Im sure you'll rather she started something first Im sure. :-)
Is it possible shes still in love with her ex?? Cause someone who really loves you will always be there for you. Not ignore you and call an ex. That tells me she doesn't care.
Your ex sounds like mine too, which was the reason of the break up as after talking, there was just no changes.
I hope this helps some :)
2006-12-18 17:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by tashasw79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I'm going to sound very cliched here. You and your girlfriend are really just starting to get to know each other. When the two of you first got together, did you REALLY sit down and have those long, deep thought like talks that not many great couples do anymore? So she doesn't really pay attention to you that much you say. Does she work a lot? Odd hour type job? Maybe(no implications of anything here) she's on anti-depressants and doesn't want you to know? That could possibly explain the lack of physical desire. Not knowing what else or whom else to go to, she calls her ex for legal advice for to help YOU and your daughter. Do this for me please: Take a really deep breath. Let it out, and talk to her. Start small. Be gentle. Don't rush anything. If she is having a problem, let her know you want to help her and that your there for her. Love is too important in this world these days to just rush it and ruin it.
2006-12-18 16:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my ex....(with a few exceptions) heres the deal: if you have to question whether or not she loves you....then, i think you already know. it's just a matter of facing reality. it's the hardest part. when two people are in love then they both just know it. it sounds as though you really love her, but let me tell you from experience it will feel much better when you know that you feel that way for someone and you know just as well that they feel the exact same way.
2006-12-18 17:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by jmc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump the ***** and lets you and me get to know each other!!!! :)
2006-12-18 16:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by CURVY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol..........still didnt realize that you dont mean anything to her??? Wake up !!!!!!!
2006-12-18 16:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by حلاَمبرا hallambra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her
2006-12-18 16:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by sean f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋