My wife wants a divorce says she is needs a change?She is 33 and i am 38 she thinks that our marriage of 4 yrs is holding her back?I have never held her back job wise and have indeed supported her in almost every aspect.She has also admitted to me to have taken fertilitey drugs behind my back and is pregnant possibly with triplets.I am so angry i have never wanted to hit a woman till now.Our prenup states that she could keep whatever she brought into the marriage and small amount of money.She wants half of everything and child support.
2006-12-18 08:11:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I made it very clear to her that i did not want anymore children i have two from prior relationships so i want custody of those children if they are mine.
2006-12-18 08:19:06 · update #1
You are correct Owen the pre-nup does not say anything about child support but it did state she was to be on the pill!
2006-12-18 08:24:37 · update #2
This really varies by state but most prenups will basically protect the assets you acquired before the marriage. However, let's say you bought a house before the marriage but was still making mortgage payments. If she can show a paper trail that she made contributions to your mortgage payments she has strong grounds to overturn that asset of the prenup. The unfortunate part of a prenup is they can always be overturned by a court. Even if you made her sign on the line with 20 witnesses that she would not have children, after 4 years of marriage she does have the right to change her mind and not many courts will hold that against her. It sounds like she's ready to play hard ball and you're going to have to do the same. Find a good lawyer.
P.S. If you're really dead set against having more kids, consider getting a vasectomy. I know 20/20 hind-sight.
2006-12-18 08:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by CA DIVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not positive, but I would say that she plans to fight hard against the pre-nup that she signed. If she already went against it by not taking birth control, I don't think she really cares about it. First, I'm not sure of the issues of why you signed the pre-nup, but if she knew that she might want children eventually, she should have shared that with you and you two could have come to an agreement, or she could have left and found someone that wanted children. She should have never gone behind your back. I think you plan to be a good father and take care of your responsibilities even though you didn't want anymore children, so I don't think the support will be an issue with you. Keep your chin up. I've never had a pre-nup, but I am going through a divorce right now at age 32 after 13 years. Even though it is not a good situation, I wish you luck that it all works out somehow for you.
2006-12-19 17:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When children are conceived during the marriage well that is not in the prenup maybe you should of thought of that anyways
dso not be another dead-beat father if they are indeed your kids pay the child support the whole half of everything she may not have a case since you have the pre-nup. Consult your lawyer and see what he/she says but if she is unhappy let her go trying to help this marriage now seems abit unnecessary. God Bless and Good Luck. P.S. I do believe even if you wrote something in your pre-nup about kids I do believe you would still be responsible to pay child support
2006-12-18 08:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
child support is never an option. no matter what a prenup says. the amount for child supports depends on the needs of the child and the amount time each parent has the children. this amount is determined by the court. as far as half of anything goes, it depnds on the language of the pre-nup.
2006-12-18 08:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child support is not covered by prenups.
The rest of it depends on how well written your prenup is and the laws in your state. Talk to a lawyer.
2006-12-18 08:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 11:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋