how do i tell my mom i need to be put back on birthcontrol bc me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom?
2006-12-18 07:57:29 · 12 answers · asked by samuraiwarrior_princess_2011 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Bamma say that easy. Bamma say you shop for baby clothes on line when mom in the room. Bamma an expert at these things. Bamma otta know.
2006-12-18 08:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
I know that you think you might be ready but you should really wait. Trust this coming from someone who also had sex at 13, its really not worth it. Almost everyone will tell you that your too young but this is coming from someone with experience. Are you able to handle a pregnancy scare? Are you ready to take care of a baby? Go through the physical and emotional pain of an abortion? Find out you have an STD like herpes or something more serious like AIDS? Everytime you have sex you risk these things. I wish I would have waited until I was older and was with someone who I really loved and who respected me. But, you will do what you want to do regardless of what anyone on here says so at least you are being safe about it. I know that it's hard but be upfront about this with your mom. She will appreciate that you are trying to be safe, and that you are being honest with her. A warning though, she will be mad at first and dissapointed that you are so young and wanting to have sex. More than likely she will get you the information and protection you need and be proud that you were mature enough to ask her. If asking her is not an option then see your doctor. You don't need a parents permission to go on birth control. Also, make sure that if you have sex you use a condom too. Birth control pills are not 100% effective and don't protect against STDs so be extra safe and use a condom. Hope this helped!
2016-05-23 04:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that your periods are a bit off and you are noticing that your monthly PMS symptoms are much worse since you came off the pill. I'm not a big fan of lying to your parents but if telling her you are having sex is not an option, I think it's much better that you lie and be safe than to not lie and then end up pregnant. But remember something... BC pills, patch, ring, etc are not 100% effective. With PERFECT use, 1 in 100 women will be come pregnant. Let's face it, most girls do not use the pill perfectly (gotta take it every day, same time every day, remembering if you have a bout with diarrhea - I know, gross - can make the pill less effective as it may not absorb properly, antibiotics interfere, etc). I know of women that have taken the pill correctly and STILL got pregnant. So don't rely on the pill as your only form of birth control, it's not as reliable as you think.
Definitely tell her you just feel that your monthly cycle was much more predictable and more comfortable while on the pill (which she should believe because the pill is supposed to help with regulating your period and also help with acne, cramping, etc).
Good luck... and be careful!
2006-12-18 08:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by PT&L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wither or not you and your bf use a condom, you need birth control that is reliable. (condoms can rip or burst). You say, "Mom, I had sex with my boyfriend and we did not use a condom." Your Mom hears, "I'm an idiot and am not responsible when it comes to making sound decisions about sex." Go ahead and tell her that it was because your boyfriend doesn't like the way a condom feels... Your parents hear, " That irresponsible loser does not care about my baby's future and he wants to knock her up and make a clone of himself... "
Your best bet is to lay it on the table. Mom.... I'm sexually active and I want the pill.. (Dad won't understand.. it will take a while before he gets over the shock...) Your mom will understand because she knows people that have had unwanted pregnancies at an age that does not allow them to handle the situation. The pill will not protect you from STD's, and to be safe he should wear a condom and you should take the pill. Anytime a guy is more concerned with his pleasure than your future... drop him like a hot potato.
2006-12-18 08:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have stopped using it. if you were having sex, you should always use BC. AND ALWAYS USE A CONDOM UNLESS YOU WANT TO HAVE A BABY IN THE NEXT 9 MONTHS. first though, you need to have a pregnancy test and then get on BC. Just be honest with your mom. I dont know your situation but if you can talk to her then you need to tell her you need BC because you made a mistake and didnt use a condom. dont yell or get angry when she does...after all, you did get yourself into this. now you get to be an adult and face the consequesnces.
2006-12-18 08:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by psychoticangel_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just come right out and tell her, im sure she would rather have you on the pill than to end up pregnant, but if you already had sex without a condom its not going to help you now, so if you dont want to have to worry about talking to your mom just use condoms from now on
2006-12-18 08:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so if you have to GO BACK on the pill then whats the problem in telling your mom again. she already knows that your sexually active, and if you were on the pill for other reasons, then just tell her that "mom my symptoms are back again and I need to get back on the pill" its not like she will know your taking the pill for the first time
2006-12-18 10:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you are doing and she will get you the birth control.
By the way, you better take a pregnancy test.
2006-12-18 08:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her your period of really off and you have noticed youve been moody with really bad cramps the doctor can stand behind you and explain to her the hormonal imbalance you could have :)
2006-12-18 07:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by z_ballerina15 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow well you might not wanna tell her about ur bf and you having sex. but mention your period is all over the place on the days. that should do it.
2006-12-19 06:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by kylee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋