My boyfriend doesn't want too.
2006-12-18 07:28:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
dont push your plan. coz it will be difficult if only one in the realtionship wants to have a baby.
having a baby is a serious thing, and though you'll say you want it even your bf doesnt want and you'll do everything, still it will be hard for you.
talk with your partner. maybe he is not yet ready. if yes, understand him.
2006-12-18 07:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by johannea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would not be a good idea. Most likely you are in you 20's (or younger). You have plenty of time. Do not rush into it with someone who does not want the same as you. It would not end on a good note. A child deserves both a mother and a father who are dedicated to having a family. Having children when you are not married usually leads to a failed relationship. Really think about what your idea of a family is and what you want out of your future. Sure having a baby is one of the most wonderful things in the world. But ask yourself why you really want a baby now. People sometimes do things for the wrong reason.
2006-12-18 07:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by wesleyann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your baby is going to adapt to your body no matter what you do. Honestly those "What to expect while you're expecting" books and what not dont really help. yeah, they tell you what your baby is/ should be doing but I followed that book for like my first 3 to 4 months and my doctor was saying my baby is underweight and I wasnt gaining weight fast enough. So I decided to just continue my life while still thinking of my baby. I ate whatever I wanted...subs, hot wings, french fries... i didnt even take any prenatal vitamins since i found out ( i couldnt keep them dwn) I took flintstones instead. Then at my 21 week appt. My doctor said my baby was really healthy and I was doing great. Now im 23 weeks and my baby is moving all over and she is just as happy as can be. Doctors and all these people say you can prepare..but seriously...you can't prepare for a baby. Im not saying be stupid. You know you cant drink or smoke or lift heavy objects, but i promise thats about it.Every woman is different...i agree..but if you try and mkae sure everything is perfect and you eat this and drink that because a book or website said so...you might just have a miscarraige. They dont always know what they talkn about.
2016-05-23 04:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you are in a commited relationship where you BOTH want the commitment of a baby. If you are even asking this question to a bunch of strangers then you are not ready to be a mother. You should plan - PLAN TO WAIT until you are BOTH ready.
2006-12-18 08:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by family_matters 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never plan for anything without the others consent! Thats just wrong to bring a baby into that kind of world. Wait till you are both ready
2006-12-18 07:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa C 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your boyfriend doesn't want to, then you should NOT plan to have one. You BOTH have to be ready to commit. I would also strongly suggest waiting until you're married. How old are you? If you can't provide a baby a stable home with a mother and father, financially support the child and yourself, then you need to wait.
2006-12-18 07:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Shannon L - Gavin's Mommy 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i agree with shannon cause a child needs both parents financially and emotionally n it is harrd to raise a child on your own trust n believe if dont no body else kno i kno!!n my baby is only 2 n i just had another one dis year shes 3 months n i had help at first but when i got pregnant the second time he left
2006-12-18 07:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by lailani236 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't want to then don't. Not sure if you mean he doesn't want to have a baby or he doesn't want to plan. But I wouldn't plan cause it wont work out that way. Nothing ever works as planned
2006-12-18 08:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by short 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT GO AND GET PREGNANT ON PURPOSE IF YOU BF DOESNT WANT A BABY YET IT COULD CAUSE BIG PROBS AND BEING A SINGLE MOTHER IM SURE IS NOT EASY ASK ANY SINGLE MOTHER OUT THERE WAIT TIL HE IS READY THEN PLAN AND SAVE UP FOR IT GOOD LUCK DONT FORCE YOUR MAN INTO SOMETHING HES NOT READY FOR A BABY IS A BIG RESPONSIBILITY
2006-12-18 07:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by <3 mykiddos,mylife <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The number one leading cause of death for pregenant women is being killed by the partner who didn't want the baby! Not miscarriage or car accidents or diseases account for so many maternal deaths.
2006-12-18 08:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by Rosemary A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋