Me and my friend have fallen out, She is also my sons aunty (my ex's sis) -really comp!! I had already bought her a xmas prezzy b4 we fell out- do i still give it to her- Yes it cost me alot, and no she has not bothered to get in touch with me since the fall out.
2006-12-18 07:23:38 · 18 answers · asked by sugar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hang on a mo.... The worlds biggest St Helens fan is telling ME to get a life?????
2006-12-18 07:27:40 · update #1
yes.be the better person here and give it to her hunny
2006-12-18 07:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that as it's christmas, yes you should give her the present. Be the bigger person, I don't know what the fall out was about, but I don't think anything is worth losing a friend over, especially as she is your sons aunty as well. Give her the present and make up x
2006-12-18 07:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by Minniex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like a good opportunity to try to put the situation right. Even if you are not in the wrong, you could contact her and try to fix it, even if only for the sake of your son. This would make you the more mature person by far and your son would probably really appreciate it. If it doesn't work out, at least you will know that you tried. Good luck!
2006-12-18 07:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by Funky Little Spacegirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you got her the gift you two were good, and so yes you should still give it to her. Maybe she will see that you still care for her and don't want to loose her friendship (if it was her that had something to do with it) It would show that you are still a good person, very mature and forgiving. Just tell her you got the gift before the bad happened and you still wanted her to have it so she could see what she meant to you. One way or another, you will be rewarded for your good deed.
2006-12-18 07:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you have fallen out, it sounds like you really love your friend. Give her the prezzy xx
2006-12-18 07:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by : 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you fell out over.
If it was something which is worthy of falling out for a very long time then no don't give it to her, get a refund and spend the money on yourself.
If it was a little tiff then it will be ok to give it to her but since she hasn't bothered to phone you then she might not have bought you anything
2006-12-18 07:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful - 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to try to save the friendship then yes. Christmas is a time for Good Will To All
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2006-12-20 05:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably wouldn't, but that's because I'm vindictive and good at holding grudges.
Do you want to mend your friendship? If not, you shouldn't bother, but if you do, a thoughtful gift could be a good start.
2006-12-18 07:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends why you fell out and if you want to make up. Maybe get her something not so expensive - save that pressie for if you do make up!?
2006-12-18 23:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its christmas a time for giving you may even make up and if not be the bigger person and show her that you are forgiving
2006-12-18 07:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by sarah k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. At least you will make an effort to mend things.
If that's what you want.
Good luck.
2006-12-18 07:26:00 · answer #11 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋