i cant trust my mom she goes all my stuff and she is always thinks i am lieing what should i do
2006-12-18 06:53:56 · 8 answers · asked by vanessa w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
that sucks that she goes through all your stuff. Try to talk to her about why you cant trust her ,, if that doesn't work find someone else to talk to
2006-12-18 06:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by noluxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously feels the same way about you and I know that nobody wants their privacy invaded but at the same time, you need to count your blessings. I know this may sound corny but be thankful. Your mom is obviously concerned about your well being and what you do. There aren’t enough moms like yours now days. She is your mother, you came from her. She is concerned ... maybe she could find another way to go about certain situations but point is, she obviously worries. Why? Because she loves you. If/when you become a parent one day, you will understand.
2006-12-18 06:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always told my teenagers that our relationship wasn't about trust.
Being a parent means that you have dig beyond the surface to make sure that your children are safe and being respectful to others.
I suggest that you talk to your Mom about going through your things and tell her that it hurts you when she thinks that you lie...with that said, it is your obligation not to be doing things that your Mom should be snooping around to find out and not to lie.
God bless you and your whole family and have a Merry Christmas!!
2006-12-18 06:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by Buff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you want your privacy or if that doesn’t work ask talk to her about how you don’t like it when she goes through your stuff. And if you have anything to hide you should find a really secret spot : )
2006-12-18 06:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well ask your mom why do she think you are lieing all of the time. convince her u are not. talk with her. explain to her how it makes u feel to have her thinking u are lieing
2006-12-18 06:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
quit giving her reasons to not trust you!
2006-12-18 06:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by timc_fla 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO BODY CAN TRUST THEIR MOTHER!!!! THAT IS A PART OF LIFE...MOVE OUT GET YOUR OWN PLACE
2006-12-18 06:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by the one 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't leave any incriminating evidence...
2006-12-18 06:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by cadillacrazy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋