My brother doesnt like to be with my mother he will scream and cry and bite her till I come get him (some times he bites me) and so he will stay with me and then when I have homework to do he will take the homework away slobber on it and then throw it back. A few Mondays I had to watch him totally stressed cause I am tryign to a project and he is busy crying. What should I do, so he will go to others than me? (so I can get work done and live life as a normal teenager?)
2006-12-18 06:50:53 · 7 answers · asked by --; cookie. 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you should let your mom take care of him anyways. besides she is MOM. you can make time to play with him later. thats why its good to start showing your kids whos boss....so these kinds of things wont happen. lol i saw a lady fighting with her 5 year old. he sounds just like you described. no to mention he kept saying he was gonna kill her.... anyways tell your mom to take control. and keep that control. cause it sounds like you're mom and shes the teen.
love jen.
2006-12-18 06:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jennie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a little brother like that and the reason why my lil bro is like that is because i take care of him most of the time, does your mom spend alot of time with him, or do you spend more time with him than your mom does? maybe you should go to a friends house and let him spend some time with his mother, get a little bonding time with her, believe me i know this is just a stage that kids go through when their mother goes to work and leaves them with the babysitter or a older sibling, once he learns the different roles family members and babysitters play in his life, he will grow out of it, but from the way how he acts it seems like if and when he does grow out of it, you and him will still be close
2006-12-18 16:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by Quilly Millz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that one of the only things that you can do is try to get him as use to his mother as you can
maybe play with him and your mom just get him used to your mom without totally abandoning him
you do want to lead a normal life as a teenager so it is understandable
How does your mother feel about this?? Her child not wanting to be with her.. how old is he???
if this doesn't work maybe you could see a counselor with him and your mom
Good luck!!!
and
Happy Holidays
2006-12-18 15:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by xWill_Smith_Luverx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probobly talk to a doctor. this sounds like it could turn into a big problem, and that could be bad. if you don't know a doctor personally, talk to your school nurse and ask if she knows something you can do. maybe looking it up online would help too. boytownpediatrics.org is a good source. if all else fails, just leave him with your mom more often, while you are there. i would also suggest talking to your mom. this could really be hurting her, her own son not wanting to be near her. hope it works out!
2006-12-18 15:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by purplemallkitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe u could get ur mom to give him something he likes..like ice cream..i know tacky but little kids are like dogs..if some one gives them food or does something entertaining they'll adore that person forever
2006-12-18 15:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by saywhat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go and get him leave him with your mum. get a lock on your door and trun up the music.
2006-12-18 15:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i agree with her let ur mom take care of him she is the mom ^
2006-12-18 15:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋