This is so stupid, but I'd like to be a male in order to have a gay bf. I'm a girl. Is it...normal ;)))?

Answer 1

It's gender confusion. Perhaps you are an adolescent watching too much yaoi ;) You'll get over it...or find a bf who likes being barebacked with a strap-on ;)

Answer 2

Well, if you're just talking because you like gay boys, or think they are cooler, cuter, make better boyfriends, whatever, then you're just a hopeful f*ghag, sorry, sugar. It isn't weird to want that, but it's a bit hopeless, ya know.

Now, if you're serious, and you want to be male and are attracted to men, then it sounds to me like you are what is known as a gay transman- that is, a female-bodied male who is attracted to men. There are a lot of them out there (it's a myth that there are more male-to-female transsexuals than female-to-male; they are merely more well-known), and there's even an FtM lurking on Yahoo! Answers somewhere, used to (still does?) go by the name 'Mad Scientist'- really nice guy, good answers on female-to-male transsexuality.

Way back when, it used to be thought that you were only gender dysphoric (trapped in the wrong body) if you liked the same sex. For example- they let gay men transition to women, and lesbians to men, but a straight man or woman couldn't have a sex change. After all- why would they? Don't they already like the opposite sex? Since then, we've had a big shift, and now realize that there's a difference between who you are (gender identity) and who you want to sleep with (sexual orientation). In fact, Lou Sullivan (R.I.P.), an early FtM, actually pioneered this by being the first gay transman to get permission to transition even though he (she at the time) was sexually attracted to men. It's a really big deal, and now we have lots of gay transmen and lesbian transwomen, which is fantastic.

At this point in time, you have a couple of options. You can start trying to figure out whether you are cool the way you are, or if you're going to need to change your sex. Either one is fine- there are lots of non-op, non-hormone taking transsexuals, but a lot feel the need to at least have hormones and take on a male identity instead of a masculine female one. That's up to you to decide, but talking to a gender counselor is always advisable, particularly if you think you might want to transition- you'll have to be with them for a while and get a written permission to have a doctor prescribe testosterone. And if you decide it's not for you, then it's been some help, too.

I suggest looking up gay transmen online and reading up about them or talking to some. I don't know how old you are, but there's a lot of material out there about them now, and even a pornographic film depicting 'trannyf*g' sexuality, of FtM's with biological men, "Trannyf*gs" by Morty Diamond.

Whatever you do, good luck, and know that you're not alone!

Answer 3

there isn't any universal length at the same time as flaccid or limp, it varies on the guy from hour to hour. in many cases about 2 inches or so in an uncomplicated state. uncomplicated grownup penis length for seventy six% of all adult men is 5.4 to 6.2 inches. in effortless words 12% are larger than 6.2 inches, in spite of the undeniable fact that ninety% of all adult men and one hundred% of all young children declare to be. in the adventure that your length is real and precise your dude is large. maximum in all likelihood the different females do not have any clue what length their boys are, and doubtless uncomplicated or perhaps below till bodily universal they're rather large adult men. Penis length is measured alongside the finished. Take a ruler next time and verify for particular. guess you're overestimating.

Answer 4

I've had dreams where I believe I'm a guy. (totally a girl here!) I think that I'm wanting to be with girls in these dreams though. I try to hit on them, or will be kissing them. I suppose you'd consider me bi, even outside of these dreams. lol I can't say I've ever wanted to be a guy just so I could be with a gay guy though.

Here's a thought... Find you a bi guy. A bi guy would love to be with you and all your girlie parts, but would still love it if you used a strap-on on him!!!! I know it's not the real thing and wouldn't "feel" the same, but unless you went through many, many surgeries, and spent throusands of bucks, this would be probably the closest to solving this issue...
Good luck Girlie!
;o)

Answer 5

Put it this way it is way out there and totally impossible, unless you want to have a sex change. I guess you could dress up like a guy and what happens when you are found out?

Answer 6

You are a pre-op FM that likes men... go to a gay club and you'll see them around.

Answer 7

i don't know if it's normal, but then again what is normal in life. any way you do have somewhat of a different situation than most

Answer 8

I like gay guys. My friend asked out this gay guy and now we are waiting over winter break and we are hoping that he will turn bi for her. She's really nice and she is Bi.

Answer 9

Hun, there is no such thing as normal. Those that are called "normal" have repressed feelings and are unhappy.

Answer 10

That's called gender confusion. It happens.