Okay, my friends ex-boyfriend just broke up with her, because he caught her cheating on him, and I personnally don't blame him for doing that. But this guy really likes me now, and I've always secretly liked him before. One of his friends are saying he's going to ask me out, but I think it would totally KILL my BFF if she found out I was going out with her ex. I know it would be totally wrong to do that, but it was wrong of her in the first place to cheat on him. What should I do. I'm totally confused.
2006-12-18 05:49:34 · 10 answers · asked by Nicole Brown 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well she's not really my BFF, we've always kinda secretly hated each other in a way. We're both models and actors. But she's the bigger model, and I'm the bigger actor. She does like small plays, and I do commercials. But she does like runway modeling, and I just do hair modeling.
2006-12-18 05:59:35 · update #1
what she did wasn't wrong to you, it was wrong to her boyfriend . don't try to justify your wrong doings by using her cheating. your loyalty is to her not her dude. dont date your frends ex. and did it ever dawn on you that maybe hes liking you for revenge on her? think about it.
2006-12-18 05:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Tristan29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be honest with her. if it is going to kill the friendship and she really means that much to you, then you will choose not to go out with him. If she says fine go for it, remember that she might just be saying that and in the long run it will hurt her. My rule NEVER date a friends ex. I gave an old friend the ok to date my ex husband, I was cool with it as I have found someone else, but she got real weird and we are not really friends anymore.She is now married to him and is my two boys step-mom. WEIRD!!!! Anyways she was a friendship that I really was ok letting go of, so i figured what the heck i will give her my blessing. But if you do not want to lose what you have with your friend now, find a new guy to crush on~
2006-12-18 13:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by Needingsomeadvice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date someone else. It would not be a good thing to go out with him. He is on the rebound. He is hurt. This would all end up bad. Two wrongs don't make a right.
2006-12-18 13:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by corkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this guy worth maybe lossing your BFF ? If hr is why not be honest tell your friend you liked him before but you would of never stepped on her toes but you would like to see where things went with him and you would like her blessing.
2006-12-18 13:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by lpirishgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put yourself in her shoes. how would you feel. there a millions of other guys. either find another one. or the least you could do is talk to your friend about it before you go through with it. friends dont do things behind friends backs. SO BE A FRIEND. NOT THE BACKSTABBING BICH SHE WILL NEVER FORGET.
2006-12-18 13:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take her on the Jerry Springer show and let her know you're going out with him
2006-12-18 13:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she really is your BBF then you should not be confused, there are many men out there but only a few BBF in a lifetime
2006-12-18 13:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you really tight with your bff. if not go for it. good luck, will she think you broke them up?
2006-12-18 13:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask her? If she says she would be bothered by it, then you'll have the answer to your question.
2006-12-18 13:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by spottedtan5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
2006-12-18 13:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋