I really like guys, don't get me wrong, but lately, after a $hitload of guy drama mind you, I've been thinking about girls. I honestly and considering a relationship...am I gay or what? I'm so confused...
2006-12-18 05:37:31 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ya know, there is another choice. Just because you feel you are turning to girls, does NOT make you gay. That makes you bi-curious right now. Now, if you have a relationship with a girl, but still feel attracted to guys, that would make you Bisexual. All that means is that you want to have your cake and eat it too. so what? I am bi, and married to the most perfect guy, but I still have a thing for girls. I haven't been with one in too long, but the craving is still there. I don't know about most, but I know I learned a LOT about myself, from being with a girl.
Go to a club or hook up with a girl. See what you think about it. It's definately worth a try. Imagine the guys you could tease and pick up, while being hand in hand with some beautiful chick!!! Watching a guy drool while he's watching girls kiss is unbelievable. (Guys are soooooo funny!!!!)
Go for it, and Good Luck!!!
;o)
2006-12-18 06:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe because you haven't had such a great relationship with the fellas you feel you need to try something different. From a couple of gay people I know they say they knew they were gay at a very early age. Maybe you just need someone you can really confide in and talk things through instead of getting involved with someone of the same sex then later regret it and then find you have a hard time living with what you experienced. Don't get yourself into something just because you have had some bad experiences.
2006-12-18 06:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by nickle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes and no. a lot of people go through a phase where they are bi for gay. most grow out of it after a while but some never do! i mean look at me ive been gay since i was 14 there is nothing wrong with being gay iether and i think u should go for the gay relationship u have been considering there is nothing wrong with a little expirementation. and if u look at my blog and stuff. i was just joking about the imbreading stuff. i like to freak people out like that.
2006-12-18 05:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is all the guy drama pushing you to think about same sex encounters? or Is this just an excuse to explore what you've been feeling all along? Just try explore the other side... you might just be curious and might or might not like it. That's the only way you'll really find out.
2006-12-18 07:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mother'f3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why does this have to be fault of the men? There are actually decent, respectable guys out there and no, i dont think guys are the reason girls turn gay. I realize this rant doesnt solve your problem so i will offer my services of a 3sum with your girl of choice and help you decide, unless of course you're underage, then i must retract my offer.
(only joking....none of us are qualified to make the call for you. take a week or two to clear your mind and distance yourself from the drama...it'll come to you)
2006-12-18 11:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by rwasham729 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Typically, homosexuality is being linked to genetics. Many people are gay. There is no choice involved.
Sociology is showing that there is a growing trend of women, who after facing abuse or "guy drama", as you put it, are turning to other women.
Ultimately, seek happiness where YOU find it. Be who YOU are. Find the life partner YOU are meant to have, a person who loves YOU... and don't worry about gay/straight.
2006-12-18 05:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by rogueknight17 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may be gay, but you may also be running away from facing the challenges, thinking it may be easier with girls who may act more like you would. I don't think it is easy to handle, but eventually it would give you a better grip on handling the stuff you so dislike now.
With girls, you have all sorts of different things to deal with, in no way better than with men, just different.
2006-12-18 05:46:48 · answer #7 · answered by smiling4her 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try not to worry, keep an open mind, you don't have to label yourself. You may find a girl to love or a man but as long as you are happy that's all that matters. Go with your heart. I wish you all the best...
2006-12-18 05:47:59 · answer #8 · answered by Prawnsize 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
exactly sweetheart, you just said it. You are confused. If you are thinking about having a relationship with another girl, think very deeply about it. If you decide to do it and you like it, then I guess you can call yourself a bisexual. Just don't rush for nothing think about it and make a decision. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-18 05:42:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I will probably get reported for this but personaly, I dont beileve in Bisexuality and I am questioning Homosexuality. I think you are just confused in your social life. I dont think youre gay. The reason I dont beileve is, I am in medical school and there is no gene of sample of DNA, TLP, DGT that can be a mix up and have you tend to liking the same sex. There is definalty no bisexuality because DNA, DGT, TLPs cant split and change.
2006-12-18 05:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋