2006-12-18 05:11:29 · 20 answers · asked by Lauren E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because women 'always' become fat and nagging (-o-)s. If you want him interested ,be the woman he was originally attracted to.
2006-12-18 06:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men loose interest after marriage because the women change their attitude. For what ever reason, women start treating their men like they are incompetent buffoons. All their men ask for is respect. It's not that difficult women! Just do it!
My husband has not lost interest in me because I continue to work at our relationship. We go on dates, we laugh, I show him daily how much I love him and how grateful I am that he is my husband. I let him know that he is my Man. And When I say something hurtful or start getting a bad attitude, I step back and explain what I am feeling...and apoligize for taking it out on him. Most of the time, when I am upset, it has nothing to do with him.
What do I get in return for my efforts? The most amazing marriage and a wonderful husband!
Oh one more thing... men do not read minds! Tell you husband what you need. Don't give hints and then get mad at him for not figuring it out. If you need help with something, ask him. If you are missing him and you want to spend time with him, tell him. If you want a hug, tell him. Tell Him!!!
2006-12-18 13:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
because in a marriage it takes two to keep the spice in the marriage so when he starts to loose interset both you guys get into the shower together or bubble bath,or do something different that you guys have never done before. marriage takes work sometimes some are you willing to work for what you really want in life. after 18 years of marriage,it only gets better. try it and tell me what you think.
2006-12-18 13:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by Raynette S 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not all men do. Marriage is a job, one that you must constantly work on. If one partner quits working on the relationship, it fails. The two should seek out counseling if it is really bad.
Otherwise, simply by "spicing" it up like the days before marriage helps!
2006-12-18 13:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think a man ALWAYS looses interest.
Perhaps he gives up after being told no and/or being cut down by his wife dozens of times each day.
Pretty soon he learns it's pointless to try as she will be critical or dismissive of him.
Perhaps stereotyping him and using terms like men are ALWAYS like that.
Of course, not all women will do this, only the bad ones :grin:
2006-12-18 13:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
All men don't lose interest. Mine hasn't, it's been 18 years, and the passion that first felt has faded somewhat, but the interest and love is even greater now than it was when we married.
2006-12-18 13:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why do women get fat and not want sex after marriage?
Why does the nagging and lack of respect start after marriage?
Go figure...
2006-12-18 14:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
They do not lose interest.
I keep my husband on his toes and it works, he never knows what he's coming home to. He only knows he will enjoy it a LOT. So he likes coming home. Doesn't have to be racy, just fun, interesting and nice.
2006-12-18 13:41:13 · answer #8 · answered by babygyrl_nyc 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because the wife loses interest and enthusiasm of maintaining her individuality.
2006-12-18 13:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
That's not true!!Some people just don't understand the concept of marriage! Marriage is not for everybody.Some people think they're ready to commit,when they really aren't!!
2006-12-18 13:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by hot chocolate 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋